If you have made the decision to get a divorce and go through the process involved, it is time to get take the emotions out of the equation and get a winning strategy in place. You always want to be fair, just and reasonable, but not be ruined financially and emotionally by a divorce that is completely in favor of the other party.
Here are some initial considerations:
The first and most important consideration is whether you want a settlement or further hostility, conflict and an adversarial approach? Divorce is not easy and there are definitely high flying emotions, but you must think long term and not exacerbate the conflict.
More importantly, even if you do not go to trial but extend the process by way of dishonesty, aggressive behavior and being unreasonable – all that you will have achieved is are massive legal and psychiatric) expenses.
So think with your head and always keep in mind that this is not going to be easy, but can be made much easier if you take the right approach and get a winning strategy in place. If you get clear on your priorities, expected outcome, let go of the insignificant sticking points and hire an attorney who has a settlement driven strategy, you are well on the way to a winning strategy and most of all – peace of mind.
The aim is to get a fair settlement with minimum chaos, aggression and disruption of the life of you and your family. Do not let intense emotions hinder the process and then you can move on to the next stage of going through the legal process effortlessly, with the help and guidance of an experience family law attorney.
Hiring a New York Divorce Lawyer
At the law offices of Brian D Perskin, we are dedicated to settling cases as quickly as possible, usually within the first month. This is contrary to much of the advice that you will hear from other lawyers and is essentially what sets us apart. High end attorneys are more willing to negotiate endlessly without going to Court. If the case does happen to get to Court, the client will find out that much of the advice they were given was incorrect, inaccurate and a waste of time.
At our law office we do not conduct endless meetings and negotiations, which would rack up a small fortune for you in fees.
We give straightforward, honest and to the point advice with the aim of a settlement that takes place as soon as possible.
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The Law Offices of Brian D. Perskin is available to assist you with any questions you may have regarding divorce in New York. Contact Us today to get the Winning Divorce strategy in place.