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| September 28, 2006 |
| Can I Move? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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This is the first in a series of cases I will post for my readers to get a sense of what they need to prove if they want to relocate or fight a relocation. You should know that when either preparing or defending a relocation case in New York, it is important to present all your proof at trial. This includes, financial, education and medical testimony.
Family Court, Richmond County, New York.
In the Matter of a CUSTODY/Visitation Proceedings
CURTIS L.S., Petitioner
Janice P.W., Respondent.
Aug. 2, 2006.
CATHERINE M. DiDOMENICO, J.
Petitioner Father, Curtis S., filed a Petition seeking permission to relocate from Brooklyn, New York to Chapel Hill, North Carolina with his six year old son, Curtis Allen S. ("Allen") (d.o.b.8/22/99).
On May 17, 2004, the Administration for Children's Services ("ACS") filed a Neglect Petition against the Respondent Mother, Ms. W., alleging, among other things, that she physically assaulted Allen's sibling, Antoinette, in the presence of Allen. Antoinette and Allen were remanded to the care of ACS. On April 26, 2004, Petitioner Father filed a Petition for Custody. On July 8, 2004, after a trial, a finding of neglect was entered against the Respondent Mother and Petitioner Father was granted custody of Allen. Visitation to the Respondent Mother was granted upon mutual agreement by the parties to be supervised by the maternal aunt, Ms. Joyce J.
An Order of Disposition was entered as to Antoinette on August 3, 2004. Antoinette was placed with ACS for a period of up to twelve months. Respondent was to observe the following conditions: cooperate with ACS and Agency services, referrals and supervision; complete alcohol rehabilitation; visit Antoinette regularly; maintain adequate housing; maintain an adequate source of income; plan for the return of the child; complete an anger management program; and comply with a one year Final Order of Protection on behalf of Antoinette. A Petition to Terminate the Parental Rights of Respondent Mother as to Antoinette on the grounds of permanent neglect is currently pending before this Court.
On July 28, 2005, Respondent Mother filed a Petition for Modification of an Order of Custody requesting that Petitioner Father be prevented from relocating with Allen to North Carolina. On August 1, 2005, the Hon. Ralph Porzio ordered that Allen not be relocated without prior court approval. On March 22, 2006, Respondent Mother filed a Petition for Modification of an Order of Visitation alleging that Ms. Joyce J. could no longer supervise visits. Respondent Mother requested that she be granted unsupervised visits, unrestricted daily contact, and visits every Monday and Friday from 3:30 pm until 5:30 pm at the Brooklyn Public Library.
Petitioner Father's relocation petition and Respondent Mother's visitation petition were the subject of a fact finding hearing held on July 10, 11, 19 and 20, 2006. At the fact finding hearing, Petitioner Father testified and also called Dr. Margit W., a licensed Family Court Services psychologist, as an expert witness. Dr. W.'s report was entered into evidence without objection (Petitioner's # 1). Respondent Mother testified on her own behalf. The Law Guardian called no witnesses.
After hearing the testimony of all three witnesses, and assessing their credibility, this Court credits the testimony of Petitioner Father and Dr.W. The Court does not credit at all the testimony of Respondent Mother.
Testimony at Fact Finding
Petitioner Father
Petitioner Father was awarded custody of Allen in July 2004. He testified that he is currently employed as a personal trainer earning approximately $20,000.00 to $30,000.00. Petitioner Father testified that he would like to relocate with Allen to Chapel Hill, North Carolina where he has an opportunity to be a Personal Trainer Director earning between $40,000.00 to $50,000.00. Petitioner Father's mother and aunt, whom he and Allen had lived with in New York and whom they intend to live with in Chapel Hill, have already relocated to Chapel Hill and are residing in a three bedroom apartment in a gated community. Petitioner Father and Allen would each have their own room in paternal grandmother's home. Petitioner Father researched the school system on the internet and communicated with the principal of the school Allen would be attending. He testified that he was impressed with the school's computer program and that the school is a five-minute walk from the home and a three minute walk from the job Petitioner Father hopes to secure. While Petitioner Father acknowledges that Allen is currently doing well in school and has no special needs, Petitioner Father believes he would be able to spend more time with Allen and would be able to offer Allen a better quality of life with the support of his extended family. Petitioner Father's mother and aunt are retired and would provide child care for Allen while Petitioner Father works.
Petitioner Father testified that since his mother and aunt relocated to North Carolina he is currently staying with friends while Allen lives with his maternal aunt, Ms. Joyce J. Petitioner Father sees Allen every day, taking him to and from school and karate.
Petitioner Father testified that the maternal aunt, Ms. Joyce J., supervised visits until October, 2005. From July 2004 to December 2004, Respondent Mother visited with Allen at Ms. J.'s home twice a week for approximately two hours. From January 2005 to August 2005, Respondent Mother visited only once. Respondent Mother sporadically calls to speak with Allen, and has never provided child support.
Dr. W.
Dr. W. testified that she interviewed both Petitioner Father and Respondent Mother and had a play interview with Allen. Dr. W. recommended that Petitioner Father be allowed to relocate with monthly visits with the Respondent Mother. Dr. W. did not recommend unsupervised visits with the Respondent Mother because of Respondent Mother's violent episodes with Antoinette. On this subject, Dr. W. noted that Respondent Mother seemed to feel that the physical force she used on Antoinette was in some way "justified." Tr. 7/1//06, p. 18, l. 21.
Dr. W.'s report concludes: "Mr. W. is a bright, articulate woman who may or may not have a substance abuse problem. What does seem clear, however, is that she has an impulse-control problem, particularly around managing her angry and needy feelings. While she has intellectual perspective on a number of issues, she seems to lack the necessary emotional perspective. Emotionally, she seemed to feel it reasonable that she strike her child back. Additionally, she has the stressors of multiple physical problems. She does appear to care about her children, at least at some level, but doesn't seem capable of handling the many vicissitudes of life, children and her feelings on a full-time basis. Sadly, she does not seem to think that psychotherapy is a useful option for her." Petitioner's # 1, page 7.
Respondent Mother
Respondent Mother testified that, in May of 2004, her children, Antoinette and Allen, were removed from her care after what she referred to as a "domestic dispute" with Antoinette. Antoinette was twelve years old at the time and the altercation left bruises on Antoinette's body. Respondent Mother was arrested and the children were removed. At that time Allen went to live with Petitioner Father. Visits between Respondent Mother and Allen were to be supervised by her aunt, Ms. J.
From May 2004 to September 2004, she visited with Allen twice a week at her aunt's home. Respondent Mother further had hip surgery on September 28, 2004 and was hospitalized for three and a half weeks. During that time, her uncle brought Allen to visit. She did not visit with Allen from October 2004 to January 2005. Her uncle brought Allen to visit in January 2005. She completed her physical recuperation in April 2005 and had a visit with Allen at that time. From January to April 2005, Respondent Mother testified that she attempted to call Petitioner Father everyday but only spoke with Allen sporadically. A visit occurred in June 2005, and then at the end of August 2005. Respondent Mother learned that Allen was relocating to North Carolina from Allen at the end of July 2005.
During cross-examination by the Law Guardian, Respondent Mother testified that she did not visit with Allen because of actions of Petitioner Father, the agency, and because she was not given adequate assistance after her hip surgery. Respondent Mother admits she did not file any petitions to enforce her right to see Allen until July 28, 2005, when she learned of Petitioner Father's intention to relocate Allen. Respondent Mother claimed that she did not realize she could enforce her rights in Court, however, this statement is belied by her frequent court appearances in connection with the Neglect and Termination of Parental Rights cases for Antoinette and the instant pro se Petitions actually filed by Respondent Mother.
Respondent Mother testified that she was granted unsupervised visits, however, they were suspended in October 2005 when she was arrested after another physical altercation between her and Antoinette during which she struck Antoinette with a metal stove grate. This incident, during which Antoinette sustained physical injuries, occurred after Respondent Mother completed mandated parenting and anger management courses and while Respondent Mother was enjoying one of only four unsupervised visits that had been permitted.
The Applicable Law
Where a custodial parent seeks permission to relocate a child, the request "must be considered on its own merits with due consideration of all the relevant facts and circumstances and with predominant emphasis being placed on what outcome is most likely to serve the best interests of the child." Tropea v. Tropea, 87 N.Y.2d 727 at 739 (1996). The issue is whether the parent requesting the relocation has established by a preponderance of the evidence that relocation would be in the child's best interest. Id. Factors to be considered in determining the appropriateness of relocation include, but are not limited to, "each parent's reasons for seeking or opposing the move, the quality of the relationships between the child and the custodial and noncustodial parents, the impact of the move on the quantity and quality of the child's future contact with the noncustodial parent, the degree to which the custodial parent's and child's life may be enhanced economically, emotionally and educationally by the move, and the feasibility of preserving the relationship between the noncustodial parent and the child through suitable visitation arrangements." Id. Where there are educational, emotional and economic benefits for the child, relocation should be granted. Aziz v. Aziz, 779 N.Y.2d 539 (2nd Dept.2004). Applying the established principles to this case, this Court does find that Petitioner Father has established, by a preponderance of the evidence, that relocation would be in Allen's best interests.
Findings of Fact & Conclusion of Law
This Court credits the testimony of Petitioner Father and Dr. W. Petitioner Father submits that the move to North Carolina will improve the quality of life for both himself and the child. Petitioner Father offers that he has greater opportunity for employment and extended family in North Carolina. Petitioner Father would be able to spend more time with the child and has a large support system there which is no longer present in New York. This Court credits Petitioner Father and finds that he has a good faith basis for relocating, namely to offer his son a better life surrounded by his aunt, grandmother and other relatives.
Petitioner Father clearly recognizes the importance of maintaining a relationship between Allen and Respondent Mother and his sister. See Miller v. Pipia, 297 A.D.2d 362 (2nd Dept.2002); Boyer v. Boyer, 281 A.D.2d 953 (4th Dept.2001). Petitioner Father offers a realistic and feasible alternative visitation schedule, specifically, he will bring Allen one weekend a month for visits with the Respondent Mother and separately, with Antoinette. This Court credits Petitioner Father's testimony in that he will continue to foster a relationship between Allen, his sister and Respondent Mother.
This Court further finds that Respondent Mother's visitation has been so inconsistent and sporadic that it is not clear that relocation would substantially interfere with her rights as a practical matter. See Ira S. v. Lauren S., 21 AD3d 288 (1st Dept.2005) (Family Court did not err in refusing to conduct hearing on issue of relocation where non-custodial parent had not made use of existing visitation rights). Respondent Mother refuses to assume any responsibility for allowing months to pass without seeing Allen or to even telephone to inquire how he was doing. Indeed, it was not until Respondent Mother discovered (through Allen) that Petitioner Father wanted to relocate that she took concrete steps to assert her rights. Further, this Court notes that Respondent Mother assumed no responsibility for the fact that custody of Allen was granted to Petitioner Father as the final disposition of a neglect case filed against her in which Allen was one of the subject children, nor that unsupervised visits were suspended when, during one of only four unsupervised visits, she physically assaulted the child Antoinette. This Court does not credit at all Respondent Mother's testimony that her acts of physical violence against Antoinette occurred as part of a "domestic dispute" in which she was compelled to "defend" herself against this then 12 year old child.
Finally, although the Respondent Mother is said to have completed court mandated anger management programs, to this day, she evidences little ability to control her frustration or her temper. During the fact-finding hearing, she became increasingly angry and hostile in response to questioning by counsel other than her own attorney to the degree that this Court offered to take a recess so that she might compose herself.
Accordingly, Petitioner Father's Petition to relocate to North Carolina is granted. Respondent Mother's Petitions to prevent the relocation, for unsupervised visits, and for violation of her visitation rights, are denied.
Disposition
As this Court does not believe sufficient information exists upon which an informed decision can be made with respect to what visitation is appropriate between Respondent Mother and Allen, this matter is adjourned for disposition. Respondent Mother is to undergo a psychiatric evaluation through ACS. The evaluation shall include a full psychiatric assessment of Respondent Mother and specifically identify what, if any, risk factors would exist should unsupervised visits with Allen be permitted.
Respondent Father is allowed to relocate with Allen to Chapel Hill, North Carolina and to register him in school in Chapel Hill forthwith. Pending disposition, Respondent Father shall produce Allen one weekend a month for a supervised visit with Respondent Mother for approximately four hours. Until such time as a mutually agreeable third party is available to supervise the visits, Petitioner Father shall supervise the visits in such public or other place as these parties may agree.
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| September 26, 2006 |
| How Do I Go About Discovery ? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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If you are involved in Divorce in New York and your future ex spouse is attempting to hide assets, the discovery process is the way for you and your lawyer to find out what he is actually hiding. There are a number of methods to effectively discover your spouses assets..... There is also an appropriate way for you to act towards the discovery process.
WHAT IS DISCOVERY?
By Ruth Miller
"Discovery" is what makes real-life practice of law different from television dramas. Nothing in the law happens suddenly, and very little happens by surprise. Your lawyer has the right to ask your spouse about everything related to the case. That means just about everything in the area of finances and issues related to custody of your children. Included in discovery are subpoenas, interrogatories, requests for production of documents, and depositions.
There are ways to keep costs down during discovery. Sometimes one of the spouses will monopolize the financial information of the parties and the other spouse will know little or nothing about their assets and liabilities. However, it is far more common that each spouse has substantial knowledge. Since a major portion of the lawyer's job is to collect and marshall information, your lawyer's time is best (and most economically) spent when you provide your lawyer with every bit of relevant information you can.
Informal discovery involves counsel exchanging information voluntarily or upon request. This method is far less expensive than formal discovery. Your lawyer will simply prepare a list of documents that are important, and ask the other lawyer for them. Be prepared to have your spouse's lawyer ask you for a multitude of documents also. Be sure to cooperate in this request. It will save you money.
Formal discovery involves interrogatories and requests for production of documents. Interrogatories are an inexpensive method of gaining information and narrowing issues. Either of you may send the other formal written questions which must be answered under oath within 30 days of their service. If interrogatories are served upon you and you don't respond, your spouse can obtain a court order to force you to respond. This is expensive and a foolish waste of money, so make sure you and your lawyer answer the questions completely.
Another method in the formal process of discovery involves requests for production of documents. Either of you can ask the other to produce any and all documents having anything to do with the dissolution (or divorce) and its related matters. That is, anything to do with support, community (or marital) property, separate property, the children, or any other matter that can be decided by the Court. This is not a great deal different from the informal method, but like interrogatories, if there is no response, it can lead to court orders, sanctions, possible jail time and a big waste of money.
The most common type of discovery is called a "deposition" whereby your lawyer talks to your spouse. A deposition is a duplication of a court proceeding without a judge. Your lawyer may ask questions of your spouse (and your spouse's lawyer can ask you questions) in a setting in which the questions and answers are recorded by a certified shorthand reporter and later bound into a permanent volume.
Depositions have several functions. First, they narrow the issues so that your lawyer can find out exactly your spouse's position on various matters. For example, if you and your spouse agree that your grandmother's furniture is your separate property, that issue can be eliminated. If not, and you are trying to preserve that furniture as your separate property, your lawyer must ask your spouse the basis of his/her opinion: If there are any receipts to prove the furniture is community (or marital), when he/she first saw the furniture, if the two of you ever had any conversations concerning the status of the furniture, and many other questions. By eliminating issues in this way you are "narrowing the issues" which saves money!
Second, depositions tend to "freeze" testimony from deposition to trial. That is - if a party testifies one way at a deposition, and another way at a trial, it is unlikely that the judge will believe anything the person says. So each spouse is "stuck" with his/her deposition testimony.
Third, a deposition is very useful in helping the lawyer determine how effective your spouse is likely to be in court. And, finally, if the assets, liabilities and income are very complex, a deposition is essential to educate the lawyers.
You have the right to be present at your spouse's deposition and should plan to do so, unless your lawyer advises you that it would be counterproductive. If your spouse won't answer the question, your lawyer will ask the court reporter to "certify" the question, and then ask the judge to order him/her to answer. If the judge makes that order and if he/she still refuses to answer, there are many remedies. A fine or jail sentence is possible, but what is most effective is to "strike the pleadings" of the other spouse. Then he/she has no rights before the court.
If your spouse is lying, it is clearly to your advantage if you can prove it. In fact, if you can prove that only part of his/her testimony is not truthful, you are probably going to be the prevailing party on contested issues/ Many people lie and cheat in the world, but they are generally unsuccessful in getting the court system to help them. Judges are quite experienced in judging a person's credibility and know when witnesses are lying. The foundation of our legal system assumes that people tell the truth when they come to court, so judges react very negatively to witnesses who lie.
The deposition process is an ordeal, but the following instructions, commonly provided by attorneys to their clients, can lessen the stress:
1. Tell the truth. You must, you are under oath. However, do not depreciate yourself. For example, if you genuinely believe you are unable to work long hours of overtime, then the answer "Yes" to the question, "You really are able to work overtime, aren't you?" would not be the truth.
2. Don't guess. If you don't know the answer or if you can't remember. Say so! Nobody is going to think you are stupid if you can't remember something. Most of us can remember only life milestones, not day-to-day trivia. The deposition "freezes" your testimony, so a wrong guess can be disastrous.
3. Answer only the question: don't run on at the mouth. A deposition is very expensive! Extra words create extra expense. If you can answer a question with ten words, do not use one hundred. However, you are not limited to a "yes" or "no" answer.
4. Don't volunteer information. You are not obligated to do so, and if you do, it could be damaging to your case. Just wait for the question, answer the question, and then wait for another question.
5. Don't try to convince the other side of the merits of your case. You won't be able to do it, and you will find yourself caught in a web. Besides, it really doesn't matter whether the other side likes you or not. You can never help yourself at a deposition, only hurt yourself. So just answer the questions.
6. Can my mother/friend/therapist be present? The law in this area is not clear. However, most lawyers will allow other persons to be present if the request is reasonable and if there is enough space in the room. This is especially true with your own deposition as opposed to your spouse's deposition.
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| September 26, 2006 |
| What is Separate Property? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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Many times individuals enter marriage with their own separate property. The Divorce laws in New York allow for indivuals getting divorced to keep their separate property. However, it is difficult in long term marriages to determine it certain property is truly separate. Divorce litigants are required to trace their assets. A recent case in the third department is very informative. I suggest you read it.....
Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Third Department, New York.
Gwen CHERNOFF, Respondent,
v.
Michael S. CHERNOFF, Appellant.
July 13, 2006
Before: MERCURE, J.P., CARPINELLO, MUGGLIN, ROSE and KANE, JJ.
MUGGLIN, J.
Appeal from a judgment of the Supreme Court (Peckham, J.), entered November 30, 2005 in Delaware County, ordering, inter alia, equitable distribution of the parties' marital property, upon a decision of the court.
In this action for divorce, issues of counsel fees, fault and custody of the child were settled by stipulation. As to the remaining issues, Supreme Court denied spousal maintenance to plaintiff, awarded child support to plaintiff and decided issues of equitable distribution. Defendant appeals, claiming that Supreme Court miscalculated his child support obligation and that, with respect to equitable distribution, Supreme Court erred both by classifying and distributing some of his separate property as marital property and by refusing to properly credit him for his separate property contributions to the acquisition of marital assets.
First, as to the issue of child support, we agree that Supreme Court miscalculated it, but not because, as defendant asserts, his income was miscalculated. Supreme Court determined defendant's income for child support purposes to be $86,304, but in consideration of the standard of living of the child during the marriage and because defendant's income will "be considerably reduced by the equitable distribution award," it limited child support to 17% of the first $80,000 of defendant's income. By doing so, Supreme Court ignored the statutory three-step process of (1) determining combined parental income, (2) multiplying the first $80,000 by 17% and allocating the result between the parents according to their respective shares of the total income, and (3) determining the amount of child support payable on the combined parental income above $80,000 by applying the statutory factors (see Matter of Cassano v. Cassano, 85 N.Y.2d 649, 653 [1995]; see also Domestic Relations Law § 240[1-b] ).
Here, the parties were both self-employed as real estate salespeople and, without regard to whether any portion of their self-employment deductions should be added back to income (see Domestic Relations Law § 240[1-b][b][5] [vi][B] ), their tax return otherwise reveals that they had combined parental income for child support purposes of at least $118,508. The statute requires the trial court to determine the amount of support on the combined income above $80,000 (see Domestic Relations Law § 240[1-b][c][3] ) by application of the subparagraph (f) factors "and/or the child support percentage." As the record is incomplete as to these factors and Supreme Court erroneously limited the child support calculation to the first $80,000 of defendant's income, intelligent appellate review of this issue is not possible and we must remit for recalculation of child support. Remittal is further required because we find it necessary to reverse some of Supreme Court's equitable distribution determinations which it found would reduce defendant's future income.
Insofar as defendant's separate property claims are concerned, the following facts are not disputed: defendant entered this 19-year marriage owning, among other things, his residence on Long Island, three rental properties (Lazy Cow, Long Beach and a parking lot) and stocks inherited from his mother; the stocks and the Lazy Cow property are still titled in defendant's name (Supreme Court awarded them to defendant as his separate property); defendant sold the parking lot approximately six to eight years prior to the divorce action and received $150,000, which he invested in four mortgages in his own name (Wegman-$18,000; Cheryl-$30,000; McCarthy-$95,000, and Chaplick-$80,000); the Long Beach building was sold shortly after the divorce action was commenced and defendant received $200,000 which netted him a $160,000 increase over his 1979 $40,000 investment in this property; and, finally, defendant has deposited income received from these assets in four bank accounts, in his name alone, from which accounts he has frequently withdrawn funds that were then commingled with plaintiff's funds in a bank account from which the parties paid their expenses. Supreme Court held that because the income from these assets had been commingled and because plaintiff had contributed services as a wife and homemaker and defendant produced no paper trail for the $73,000 sum by which the mortgages exceeded the $150,000 sale price of the parking lot, these increases in value ($73,000 and $160,000) represented marital property and awarded plaintiff 50% of the four mortgages and 50% of the four bank accounts (total to plaintiff-$119,025.34). We find this award to be erroneous for three reasons.
First, property acquired before marriage remains separate (see Domestic Relations Law § 236[B][1][d][1] ) and property acquired in exchange for said property, even if the exchange occurs during marriage, is separate property (see Domestic Relations Law § 236[B][1][d][3] ). To be sure, commingling the corpus with marital funds transmutes the separate property into marital property for purposes of equitable distribution (see Judson v. Judson, 255 A.D.2d 656, 657 [1998] ), but commingling only a portion of the income produced by the corpus does not transmute the corpus which has never been commingled.
Second, the lack of a paper trail concerning the source of the funds invested in the four mortgages is not, alone, fatal to defendant's claim (see Zanger v. Zanger, 1 AD3d 865, 867 [2003] ). Moreover, unlike the plaintiff in Cassara v. Cassara (1 AD3d 817, 819 [2003] ), defendant, here, documented his claim that the proceeds from the sale of the parking lot were invested in the mortgages in his own name alone. Moreover, it is telling that the evidence shows no source other than defendant's separate property for these investments and plaintiff acknowledged this property to be defendant's separate property.
Third, "[w]hen a nontitled spouse's claim to appreciation in the other spouse's separate property is predicated solely on the nontitled spouse's indirect contributions, some nexus between the titled spouse's active efforts and the appreciation in the separate asset is required" (Hartog v. Hartog, 85 N.Y.2d 36, 46 [1995] ). Here, there is not a scintilla of evidence that the increase in value of defendant's property was due to any effort on his part or to anything other than passive market forces. Plaintiff, as the nontitled spouse, bore the burden of proof on this issue (see Golub v. Ganz, 22 AD3d 919, 922-923 [2005] ).
Lastly, there are two main items of marital property, the marital residence and an apartment house that the parties owned through their corporation (Wachern Corporation). The marital residence was acquired by the parties, as tenants in common, prior to the marriage. Each contributed separate funds to the purchase and defendant contributed additional separate funds to pay off the purchase money mortgage (a total of $46,000). In addition, defendant contributed $25,000 of separate funds to the purchase of the apartment house. Supreme Court found that defendant made a gift of these funds to plaintiff and denied him a separate property credit. We disagree and find that the record supports defendant receiving a credit in those amounts in the equitable distribution of these assets (see Judson v. Judson, supra at 657).
ORDERED that the judgment is modified, on the law, without costs, by reversing so much thereof as (1) awarded child support, (2) denied separate property credits to defendant of $46,000 against the marital residence and $25,000 against the apartment house, and (3) awarded plaintiff a $119,025.34 share in defendant's mortgages and the related bank accounts; matter remitted to the Supreme Court for recomputation of child support and equitable distribution not inconsistent with this Court's decision; and, as so modified, affirmed.
MERCURE, J.P., CARPINELLO, ROSE and KANE, JJ., concur.
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| September 22, 2006 |
| Do I owe Support if I am not the Biological Father? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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Most people and in fact many lawyers are amazed that a man who holds himself out as a childs father, either by fraud or mistake can be held accountable for child support. The theory in New York is called equitable estoppel. It means if you represent to the child and the world that you are in fact the father, you owe support. Even if you later learn that you are not the biological father. The Court of Appeals recently ruled on this issue. I suggest if you are in this situation, sit down and read the following case very carefully.....
Matter of Shondel J. v Mark D.
2006 NYSlipOp 05238
July 6, 2006
Rosenblatt, J.
Court of Appeals
Published by New York State Law Reporting Bureau pursuant to Judiciary Law § 431.
As corrected through Wednesday, September 06, 2006
[*1] In the Matter of Shondel J., Respondent,
v
Mark D., Appellant.
Argued May 11, 2006; decided July 6, 2006
Matter of Shondel J. v Mark D., 18 AD3d 551, affirmed.
OPINION OF THE COURT
Rosenblatt, J.
In this child support proceeding, we hold that a man who has mistakenly represented himself as a child's father may be estopped from denying paternity, and made to pay child support, when the child justifiably relied on the man's representation of paternity, to the [*2]child's detriment. We reach this conclusion based on the best interests of the child as set forth by the Legislature.
I.
In January 1996, Shondel J. gave birth to a daughter in Guyana, where she then resided, and in a birth registration document named Mark D. as the father. Shondel and Mark had dated the previous spring in Guyana and had sexual intercourse.
Although Mark was in New York when the child was born, he provided financial support for the child and returned to Guyana later in the year to see her. In a sworn statement, notarized by the Guyana Consul-General in New York in January 1996, Mark declared that he was "convinced" that he was the child's father and accepted "all paternal responsibilities including child support." In 1998 he signed a Guyana registry, stating that he was her father and authorizing the change of her last name to his. Mark named the child the primary beneficiary on his life insurance policy, identifying her as his daughter. He also sent Shondel money monthly for the child's support from her birth until June 1999 and then less regularly through the summer of 2000.
In August 2000, Shondel commenced a Family Court Act article 5 proceeding alleging that Mark is the father and seeking orders of filiation and support. Initially, Mark did not contest paternity. On the contrary, in September 2000, when the child was 4½ years old, Mark commenced a Family Court Act article 6 proceeding, seeking visitation. In his petition, he stated that he was the child's father, and that he loved her and wished to "spend quality time with her on a regularly scheduled basis."
In October 2000, however, when appearing before a Family Court hearing examiner to answer Shondel's petition, Mark requested DNA testing. The hearing examiner ordered genetic marker tests, which revealed that Mark is not the child's biological father. The hearing examiner then dismissed Shondel's paternity petition, and Mark abandoned his petition for visitation, having severed his relationship with the child. Shondel objected to the hearing examiner's order, expressing doubts about the laboratory tests and stating that she would be able to show that Mark had always recognized the child as his. Realizing that the hearing examiner had exceeded her authority in dismissing Shondel's petition, Family Court sustained her objection and appointed a law guardian for the child.
In October 2001, the Law Guardian reported that Mark had acted as the father of the child, who in turn considered him her father. Family Court set the matter down for a trial on equitable estoppel and ordered another set of tests. A blood genetic marker test confirmed that Mark is not the child's biological father. [*3]
At the estoppel trial, Family Court heard widely diverging testimony from Shondel and Mark. According to Shondel's testimony, Mark spent time with her and the child when they traveled to the United States in 1996 and 1997, seeing them "every day" for about six weeks in the summer of 1997 in New York; continued to visit the child and take her out after his relationship with Shondel soured in 1998; bought the child toys, clothes and other gifts; took the child to meet his parents; told his family that she was his daughter; regularly spoke with the child by telephone; referred to himself as "daddy" when talking with the child; and visited the child "almost every other day" in August 1999 and "almost every other day" between the time Shondel and the child moved to New York in January 2000 and the commencement of this litigation.
Mark denied all of this, asserting that he had seen the child only four times since her birth; that he had not acknowledged the child as his; that he had not introduced the child to his family or friends as his child; that he had not sent the child birthday or Christmas gifts; and that he had never visited her. Mark testified that he twice asked Shondel to submit to a blood test to determine whether he was the father of her child. Shondel insisted that he did not.
Family Court believed Shondel "entirely" and found Mark's testimony incredible. It ruled that Mark "held himself out as [the] child's father, and behaved in every way as if he was the father, albeit a father who didn't reside for a good part of the child's life, in the same country." These affirmed findings of Family Court have support in the record and are binding on this Court.
Family Court entered an order of filiation and awarded child support retroactive to the date Shondel commenced the Family Court proceeding. The Appellate Division affirmed, concluding that "Family Court properly determined that it was in the best interests of the subject child to equitably estop [Mark] from denying paternity" (6 AD3d 437 [2004]).[FN1] We agree, based on our precedents, the affirmed findings of fact and the legislative recognition of paternity by estoppel.
II.
The purpose of equitable estoppel is to preclude a person from asserting a right after having led another to form the reasonable belief that the right would not be asserted, and loss or prejudice to the other would result if the right were asserted. The law imposes the doctrine as a matter of fairness. Its purpose is to prevent someone from enforcing rights that would work injustice on the person against whom enforcement is sought and who, while justifiably relying on the opposing party's actions, has been misled into a detrimental change of [*4]position (see generally Nassau Trust Co. v Montrose Concrete Prods. Corp., 56 NY2d 175, 184 [1982]).
New York courts have long applied the doctrine of estoppel in paternity and support proceedings. Our reason has been and continues to be the best interests of the child (Jean Maby H. v Joseph H., 246 AD2d 282, 285 [2d Dept 1998]; see generally Matter of L. Pamela P. v Frank S., 59 NY2d 1, 5 [1983]).
Although it originated in case law, paternity by estoppel is now secured by statute in New York (see Family Ct Act § 418 [a]; § 532 [a]). For that reason, and contrary to Mark's assertions, it is not for us to decide whether the doctrine has a rightful place in New York law. Clearly it does, in the absence of legislative repeal or a determination of unconstitutionality. Mark argues for the first time in this appeal that sections 418 (a) and 532 (a) are unconstitutional and deprive him of due process. As this claim was not raised in the courts below, we do not entertain it.
Equitable estoppel is gender neutral. In Matter of Sharon GG. v Duane HH. (63 NY2d 859 [1984], affg 95 AD2d 466 [3d Dept 1983]), we affirmed an order of the Appellate Division dismissing a paternity petition in which a mother sought to compel her husband to submit to a blood test as a means of challenging his paternity. We agreed with the Appellate Division that the mother should be estopped. As that Court pointed out, the mother expressed no question about her child's paternity until some 2½ years after the child's birth. She had held the child out as her husband's, accepted his support for the child while she and her husband lived together and after they separated, and permitted her husband and child to form strong ties together.
Estoppel may also preclude a man who claims to be a child's biological father from asserting his paternity when he acquiesced in the establishment of a strong parent-child bond between the child and another man. The rationale is that the child would be harmed by a determination that someone else is the biological father. For example, in Purificati v Paricos (154 AD2d 360 [2d Dept 1989]), a boy's biological father who did not seek to establish his paternity until more than three years after the child's birth, and who acquiesced as a relationship flourished between the boy and his mother's former husband, was estopped from claiming paternity. The courts "impose equitable estoppel to protect the status interests of a child in an already recognized and operative parent-child relationship" (Matter of Baby Boy C., 84 NY2d 91, 102 n [1994]).
Finally, the Appellate Division has repeatedly concluded that a man who has held himself out to be the father of a child, so that a parent-child relationship developed between the [*5]two, may be estopped from denying paternity.[FN2] Where a child justifiably relies on the representations of a man that he is her father with the result that she will be harmed by the man's denial of paternity, the man may be estopped from asserting that denial.[FN3]
III.
Mark represented that he was the father of the child, and she justifiably relied on this representation, changing her position by forming a bond with him, to her ultimate detriment. He is therefore estopped from denying paternity.
Mark expressly represented that he was the father of Shondel's child in the notarized sworn statement and in the Guyana registry in which he gave the child his name, as well as in the visitation petition filed with Family Court. Further, Mark held himself out as the child's father, and behaved in every way as if he was the father. Mark and the child had a close relationship, in which he referred to himself as her "daddy," and which involved regular telephone conversations, frequent visits when she and Mark were in the same city, and contact with his parents. Moreover, Mark named the child as the primary beneficiary on his life insurance policy and sent money monthly for the child's support until June 1999 and then less regularly through the summer of 2000.
The record also establishes that the child justifiably relied on Mark's representations, accepting and treating him as her father. The Law Guardian's October 2001 oral report to Family Court on her interview with the child (conducted when she was 5½ years old) concluded that she
"considers Mark [D.] to be her father. She enjoys spending time with him, she knew his name, she described what he looks like, different things about his appearance, she talked about some of the things they did together, she enjoyed the visits a lot, he brought her presents in the past, he took her out without the mother sometimes, [*6]there's a picture album with pictures of [Mark] in it and she wanted me to express that she misses him and she wants to know when he's going to come back to see her."
In the best interests of the child, Family Court properly applied estoppel, to impose support obligations on Mark, after he left the child with the detrimental effects of a relationship in which she was misled into believing that he was her father. A mother who had perfect foresight and knew that her child's relationship with a father figure would be severed when the child was 4½ might well choose never to inform him of her child's birth.
IV.
Mark attacks the statutory basis for the application of paternity by estoppel. In 1990, the Legislature amended Family Court Act § 418 (a), which governs the procedures related to scientific testing of biological paternity in support proceedings, so as to read, in pertinent part:
"The court, on its own motion or motion of any party, when paternity is contested, shall order the mother, the child and the alleged father to submit to one or more genetic marker or DNA marker tests . . . to aid in the determination of whether the alleged father is or is not the father of the child. No such test shall be ordered, however, upon a written finding by the court that it is not in the best interests of the child on the basis of res judicata, equitable estoppel or the presumption of legitimacy of a child born to a married woman." (Family Ct Act § 418 [a] [emphasis supplied]; see L 1990, ch 818, § 12.)
Arguing that the statute is self-contradictory, Mark asserts that the law mandates scientific testing of biological paternity in support proceedings and then in the next sentence makes such tests discretionary. We view the statute differently.
By providing a limited "best interests of the child" exception to mandatory biological tests of disputed paternity, the statute requires Family Court to justify its refusal to order biological tests when paternity is in issue. Before the amendment, Family Court was authorized, but not required, to order biological tests, and the court did not have to justify its refusal to do so. Now, in a support proceeding in which paternity is disputed, Family Court must explain why it denies a motion for biological paternity testing. The court may deny testing based on "res judicata, equitable estoppel or the presumption of legitimacy of a child born to a married woman," if denial is in the best interests of the child.
It is true that a child in a support proceeding has an interest in finding out the identity of her biological father. But in many instances a child also has an interest--no less powerful--in maintaining her relationship with the man who led her to believe that he is her [*7]father. The 1990 amendment to Family Court Act § 418 (a) appropriately balances these interests in accordance with the primary purpose of the Family Court Act--to protect and promote the best interests of children.
The procedure contemplated by section 418 (a) is that Family Court should consider paternity by estoppel before it decides whether to test for biological paternity. Here, the process was inverted early in the proceeding. Instead of referring the matter to a Family Court judge, the hearing examiner ordered genetic marker tests of paternity when the parties appeared in October 2000. As a result, the child's biological paternity had been addressed before Family Court conducted its trial on the issue of estoppel. Nevertheless, even though the tests had been conducted, Family Court was authorized to decide the estoppel issue.
V.
In allowing a court to declare paternity irrespective of biological fatherhood, the Legislature made a deliberate policy choice that speaks directly to the case before us. The potential damage to a child's psyche caused by suddenly ending established parental support need only be stated to be appreciated. Cutting off that support, whether emotional or financial, may leave the child in a worse position than if that support had never been given. Situations vary, and the question whether extinguishing the relationship and its attendant obligations will disserve the child is one for Family Court based on the facts in each case. Here, Family Court found it to be in the best interests of the child that Mark be declared her father and the Appellate Division properly affirmed.
Asserting that the equities are with Mark, our dissenting colleagues argue that we do not acknowledge the fraud or misrepresentation exception to the doctrine of equitable estoppel. This argument is misplaced for three reasons. To begin with, the child is the party in whose favor estoppel is being applied and there can be no claim here that she was guilty of fraud or misrepresentation. Secondly, to the extent that it matters, we note that there is no evidence of fraud or willful misrepresentation even on Shondel's part. It is not likely that she would have initiated paternity proceedings, with the predictable prospect of biological testing, if she expected tests to rule him out as the father. There is every reason to believe that she thought Mark was the biological father and that the tests would confirm her belief. Finally, the issue does not involve the equities between the two adults; the case turns exclusively on the best interests of the child.
We appreciate the dissenters' concern over applying estoppel to a case in which, as between Mark and Shondel, it was she who misrepresented Mark to be the father (even though she may have earnestly believed he was). The dissenters' position, however, appears not to recognize that fatherhood by estoppel does not contemplate a contest between two adults to [*8]see who is the more innocent. The child is entirely innocent and by statute the party whose interests are paramount.
To the child, Mark represented himself as her father. The Legislature did not create an exception for men who take on the role of fatherhood based on the mother's misrepresentation. That would eviscerate the statute and, with it, the child's best interests. Under the enactment, the mother's motivation and honesty are irrelevant; the only issue for the court is how the interests of the child are best served.
Here, Family Court found, and the Appellate Division affirmed, that Mark represented himself to be the father and that the child's best interests would be served by a declaration of fatherhood. Under our decisional law, and contrary to the dissenters' suggestion, equitable estoppel does not require that Mark, to be estopped, necessarily knew that his representation was false. A party who, like Mark, does not realize that his representation was factually inaccurate may yet be estopped from denying that representation when someone else--here the child--justifiably relied on it to her detriment (see Romano v Metropolitan Life Ins. Co., 271 NY 288, 293-294 [1936]; Triple Cities Constr. Co. v Maryland Cas. Co., 4 NY2d 443, 448 [1958]).
The dissenters cite Simcuski v Saeli (44 NY2d 442 [1978]), which holds that a defendant may be estopped to plead the statute of limitations after having wrongfully induced the plaintiff to refrain from filing a timely suit. Simcuski prevents defendants from profiting from their misconduct. It does not bear on estoppel as between a man and the child with whom he has formed a father-daughter relationship.
Our dissenting colleagues point out that Mark has renounced fatherhood and now has no relationship with the child. This state of affairs, however, does not preclude the application of estoppel. If it did, a man could defeat the statute simply by severing all ties with the child.
Given the statute recognizing paternity by estoppel, a man who harbors doubts about his biological paternity of a child has a choice to make. He may either put the doubts aside and initiate a parental relationship with the child, or insist on a scientific test of paternity before initiating a parental relationship. A possible result of the first option is paternity by estoppel; the other course creates the risk of damage to the relationship with the woman. It is not an easy choice, but at times, the law intersects with the province of personal relationships and some strain is inevitable. This should not be allowed to distract the Family Court from its principal purpose in paternity and support proceedings--to serve the best interests of the child.
Accordingly, the order of the Appellate Division should be affirmed, without costs.
G.B. Smith, J. (dissenting). The issue in this case is whether an individual nonspouse who was falsely told he was the biological father of a child and who DNA tests show could not be the biological father can be equitably estopped from denying paternity. A man or woman is and should be responsible for the financial support of his or her own offspring. In some instances, this responsibility may be placed upon a nonbiological parent. The facts in this case do not justify such a result. Because the "best interests of the child" require more than financial support, and equitable estoppel should be applicable only to someone who engages in false conduct, I dissent.
In 1995, while on a trip to Georgetown, Guyana, respondent Mark D. met and engaged in sexual intercourse with the petitioner, Shondel J. Following his return to the United States, Shondel J. told respondent she was pregnant and he began financially supporting petitioner. In 1996, respondent signed documents submitted to the Guyanese Consul that declared him to be the father of the child. He claims that he did this in order for petitioner to travel to the United States and submit to a paternity test. Between 1996 and 2000, when petitioner moved to New York, Mark D. saw the child multiple times during two visits to Guyana and a visit to Chicago. In 1997, he named the child as a beneficiary on his life insurance policy.
In 2000, Shondel J. commenced a Family Court proceeding in New York to declare Mark D. the child's father and to obtain an order of support. Family Court ordered DNA tests at Mark D.'s request and the DNA saliva swab test excluded paternity. In 2001, Family Court dismissed Shondel J.'s petition and she filed objections to the order of dismissal, alleging that the DNA test was erroneous. In November 2001, the results of a new blood test showed respondent was not the biological father. On August 8, 2002, in Family Court, Kings County, respondent was declared the child's father on the verified petition originally filed by petitioner. The court stated:
"The essence of the paternity trial was really one of equitable estoppel, should [Mark D.] be estopped from denying paternity. . . . I do find the Petitioner to have been entirely credible, and with all due respect, except in one regard, [Mark D.] entirely incredible.
"I do believe that he had doubts, however, he didn't act on them in the appropriate fashion, and as a result he held himself out as this child's father, and behaved in every way as if he was the father, albeit a father who didn't reside for a good part of the child's life, in the same country.
"However, it's clear to me that these families were involved with each other, involved with this child, that his parents and probably other friends and relatives and church members were [*9]aware of this relationship, were aware of this child . . . .
"I would assume that for the best--and hope that for the best interests of the child, that he could pick up where he left off, and accept this child wholeheartedly into his life, because the child certainly wants that, and really, what's paramount here is what the child needs."
On April 5, 2004, the Appellate Division, Second Department affirmed the Family Court's order of filiation. On May 9, 2005, the Second Department dismissed respondent's appeal from a Family Court order of retroactive child support, and affirmed an order of support against him.
The question here is not, as the majority suggests, whether equitable estoppel "has a rightful place in New York law" (majority op at 326) or in paternity proceedings. The statute makes clear that it does. The question is whether the elements of estoppel are present in this case. Equitable estoppel is a "defensive doctrine preventing one party from taking unfair advantage of another when, through false language or conduct, the person to be estopped had induced another person to act in a certain way, with the result that the other person has been injured in some way" (Black's Law Dictionary 571 [7th ed 1999]; see also Simcuski v Saeli, 44 NY2d 442, 449 [1978] [stating defendant may be equitably estopped "where plaintiff was induced by fraud, misrepresentations or deception to refrain from filing a timely action" and plaintiff demonstrates reasonable reliance on defendant's misrepresentations]). Once a party makes a prima facie showing of facts sufficient to support equitable estoppel in the paternity context, the opponent of equitable estoppel must demonstrate why estoppel should not be applied in the best interests of the child (see Matter of Sharon GG. v Duane HH., 95 AD2d 466 [3d Dept 1983], affd 63 NY2d 859 [1984]).
According to Family Court Act § 532 (a), which is substantially similar in language to Family Court Act § 418 (a):
"The court shall advise the parties of their right to one or more genetic marker tests or DNA tests and, on the court's own motion or the motion of any party, shall order the mother, her child and the alleged father to submit to one or more genetic marker or DNA tests of a type generally acknowledged as reliable by an accreditation body designated by the secretary of the federal department of health and human services and performed by a laboratory approved by such an accreditation body and by the commissioner of health or by a duly qualified physician to aid in the determination of whether the alleged father is or is not the father of the child. No such test shall be ordered, however, upon a written finding by the court that it is not in the best interests of the child on the basis of res [*10]judicata, equitable estoppel, or the presumption of legitimacy of a child born to a married woman. The record or report of the results of any such genetic marker or DNA test ordered pursuant to this section or pursuant to section one hundred eleven-k of the social services law shall be received in evidence by the court pursuant to subdivision (e) of rule forty-five hundred eighteen of the civil practice law and rules where no timely objection in writing has been made thereto and that if such timely objections are not made, they shall be deemed waived and shall not be heard by the court. If the record or report of the results of any such genetic marker or DNA test or tests indicate at least a ninety-five percent probability of paternity, the admission of such record or report shall create a rebuttable presumption of paternity, and shall establish, if unrebutted, the paternity of and liability for the support of a child pursuant to this article and article four of this act" (emphasis added).[FN1]
The majority posits that once Shondel J. claimed Mark D. was the father and made a showing (visits, support, sworn statements), it was respondent's burden to show equitable estoppel should not be applied since it would not be in the best interests of the child. The facts are not sufficient to support equitable estoppel. While Mark D. financially supported the child and made time to visit her, he has not (in the language of Black's Law Dictionary) "tak[e]n unfair advantage" or been guilty of "false language or conduct"; he has not (in the language of our decision in Simcuski) committed any "fraud, misrepresentations or deception." Thus an essential element of equitable estoppel does not exist.
The record is clear that Shondel J. misrepresented the paternity of the child for years and Mark D. relied on this information in good faith. There is no evidence that Mark D. gained any advantage from holding himself out as the child's father. Thus the majority's decision applies estoppel against a completely innocent litigant who gained no benefit from the conduct on which the estoppel is based--a holding without precedent, in the research undertaken here, in this Court's decisions. Mark D. is being required to support this child through payments of $12,858 in arrearage (as of October 2003) and $78 per week, in lieu of providing that support to his own children and his wife.
Moreover, this is a poor case for abandoning the traditional elements of estoppel. The balance of equities is in Mark D.'s favor. Contrary to the majority's view (majority op at 330), [*11]there is strong evidence of "fraud or willful misrepresentation" by Shondel J. She not only told Mark D. that the child was his, she swore in Family Court that she had sexual relations with no other man during the relevant time period--testimony proven by DNA tests to be false. Perhaps more important, this is not a case where a child lived for years with, and was brought up by, a man she had always thought was her father (cf. Matter of Diana E. v Angel M., 20 AD3d 370 [2005]). At the time of the paternity proceeding, the child had lived most of her life in a different country from Mark D., and their relationship was primarily on the telephone. This is a case in which this Court should remember "the rightful reluctance of courts in a society valuing freedom of association to impose a personal relationship upon an unwilling party," a consideration that applies with special force to "the power of the State to force a parent-child relationship" (Matter of Baby Boy C., 84 NY2d 91, 101, 102 [1994]).
The majority's ruling allows disestablishment of paternity if a presumed father acts promptly but does not allow for an exception for those who have acted in reliance on a misrepresentation or a fraud. The balance of equities should rarely favor continuing such misrepresentation or fraud. To hold as the majority does would reward a presumed father who takes no role in a child's life until a DNA test makes it official or a mother who obtains paternal obligations through fraud. As the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court wrote in A.R. v C.R.:
"We would proceed with caution, as other courts have, in imposing a duty of support on a person who has not adopted a child, is not the child's natural parent, but has undertaken voluntarily to support the child and to act as a parent. In most instances, such conduct should be encouraged as a matter of public policy. The obligation to support a child primarily rests with the natural parents, and one who undertakes that task without any duty to do so generally should not be punished if he or she should abandon it. On the other hand, a husband who for years acts as a father to a child born to the wife, supports that child, and holds himself out as the father to the child and to the world, may be obliged to continue to support the child when he, for the first time, renounces his apparent paternity in an attempt to avoid court-imposed support obligations. It may be relevant, in deciding whether reliance was detrimental, to know whether there once was an opportunity to pursue the natural father that is now lost" (411 Mass 570, 575, 583 NE2d 840, 843-844 [1992] [citations omitted and emphasis added]).
With this decision, this Court supports a public policy that says a man should [*12]never take on a parental role unless he wants to be unconditionally responsible for the child's financial support.
Finally, it is not in the best interests of the child in this matter that the order of filiation and order of support be affirmed. The Law Guardian concedes that Mark D.'s contributions to this child's life will only be financial. He has had no contact with the child since March 2000. Unlike Matter of Sharon GG., where an estranged husband fought to keep his parental rights, in this matter we have a man fighting to divorce his financial interests from petitioner and her child. While it was in the best interests of the child in Sharon GG. to maintain a relationship with an estranged husband who had filled the role of father in every way, it should not be said here that it is in the best interests of a child to have an order of filiation declare respondent to be her father, a man, who in addition to having no biological tie, has no interest in continuing a relationship with her or her mother.[FN2
Accordingly, I dissent.
Chief Judge Kaye and Judges Ciparick, Graffeo and Read concur with Judge Rosenblatt; Judge G.B. Smith dissents in a separate opinion in which Judge R.S. Smith concurs.
Order affirmed, without costs.
Footnotes
Footnote 1: This Appellate Division order is brought up for review here by Mark's appeal of a later Appellate Division order dismissing his objections to the child support order (18 AD3d 551 [2005]).
Footnote 2: Mancinelli v Mancinelli, 203 AD2d 634 (3d Dept 1994); Matter of Commissioner of Social Servs. of Tompkins County v Gregory B., 211 AD2d 956 (3d Dept 1995); Brian B. v Dionne B., 267 AD2d 188 (2d Dept 1999); Matter of Jennifer W. v Steven X., 268 AD2d 800 (3d Dept 2000); Ocasio v Ocasio, 276 AD2d 680 (2d Dept 2000); Matter of Sarah S. v James T., 299 AD2d 785 (3d Dept 2002); Matter of Diana E. v Angel M., 20 AD3d 370 (1st Dept 2005).
Footnote 3: As one court put it, "[t]he law is not so insensitive as to countenance the breach of an obligation in so vital and deep a relation, undertaken, partially fulfilled, and suddenly sundered." (Clevenger v Clevenger, 189 Cal App 2d 658, 674, 11 Cal Rptr 707, 716 [Ct App 1961]; accord Pietros v Pietros, 638 A2d 545, 548 [RI 1994].)
Footnote 1: It is arguable that because DNA and other tests were ordered prior to any decision on equitable estoppel, the said doctrine should not apply here at all.
Footnote 2: Respondent argues that his constitutional rights are being violated since he is being deprived of his property in violation of the due process clauses of the federal and state constitutions. We do not address this argument because of the view taken with respect to equitable estoppel.
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| September 22, 2006 |
| Be Careful Before You Sign... |
| Posted By Brian Preskin |
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All too often, women come into my office and tell me their wonderful future husband is requesting a pre nuptial agreement be signed before the marriage. Many pre nuptial agreements are fair and strait forward. However, some try to completely have the future couple from have completely separate financial lives. It is my opinion that a couple preparing a pre nuptial agreement in New York should.....
not focus so much on the short run. A woman should be worried about what will happen if the marriage falls apart after fifteen or twenty years. In the short run, if you marry a rich guy and it does not work out, you may not be entitled to much money. A pre nup would not hurt you. However, if you are married for a long time, did not save any money and a divorce occured after fifteen years your life could be devastated. You just have to sit in the matrimonial parts in New York and see woman in tears. Never waiver pension rights or income generated during the marriage unless their is a provision for you to recieve a substantial maintenance payment if the marriage falls apart. It is my belief that pre nupts are important in certain circumstances, but not all. You should always consult a qualified divorce lawyer in New York before you sign anything.
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| September 20, 2006 |
| Does My QRDO Include Variable Supplement Benefits and a Cola Increase? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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New York City Pensions issued from the Police, Fire, Sanitation and Other City agencies generally have a provision for a variable supplement fund and a Cost of Living Allowance (COLA). Many lawyers unfortunely do not know how to prepare a proper Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) Many times lawyers prepare Qualified Domestice Relations Orders that do not include all of the pension benefits that one side is suppose to recieve. This creates problems. Recently the appellate division ruled on Cola increases and Variable Supplement Funds....
65.2.16 - - - Pagliaro
Pagliaro v. Pagliaro, 31 A.D.3d 728, --- N.Y.S.2d --- (Second Dept. 2006)(2006 WL 2065028)(2006 N.Y. Slip Op. 05929)(July 25, 2006):
Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Second Department, New York.
Susan PAGLIARO, appellant,
v.
Robert H. PAGLIARO, respondent.
July 25, 2006.
ANITA R. FLORIO, J.P., GABRIEL M. KRAUSMAN, WILLIAM F. MASTRO, and MARK C. DILLON, JJ.
In a matrimonial action in which the parties were divorced by judgment dated April 30, 2003, the plaintiff appeals, by permission, as limited by her brief, from so much of a Qualified Domestic Relations Order of the Supreme Court, Orange County (Owen, J.), dated February 22, 2005, as failed to distribute to the plaintiff a portion of the defendant's Variable Supplements Fund benefits and cost of living adjustments.
ORDERED that the Qualified Domestic Relations Order is modified, on the law, by deleting the second sentence of the fourth decretal paragraph thereof, and substituting therefor the following: "The term 'retirement allowance' means the total amount payable to the participant by the New York City Police Pension Fund, including any Variable Supplements Fund benefits and cost of living adjustments; and it is further"; as so modified, the Qualified Domestic Relations Order is affirmed insofar as appealed from, with costs to the appellant.
The parties were divorced in April 2003. The judgment of divorce incorporated the terms and conditions of an amended separation agreement dated January 15, 2003 (hereinafter the Agreement). The Agreement provided, inter alia, that the plaintiff would share in the pension benefits of the defendant, a New York City Police Officer. The judgment of divorce directed, among other things, the settlement of a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (hereinafter QDRO).
On February 22, 2005, the Supreme Court signed a QDRO which had been drafted by the defendant's attorney. The QDRO, as signed, excluded any Variable Supplement Fund (hereinafter VSF) benefits from the definition of "retirement allowance" and was silent as to cost of living adjustments (hereinafter COLAs). The plaintiff argues that the Supreme Court erred in excluding from the QDRO the defendant's VSF benefits and COLAs payable in relation to his pension. The defendant concedes that the plaintiff is entitled to an equitable share of pension-related COLAs. We agree with the plaintiff that she is also entitled to an equitable share of VSF benefits.
Pensions represent a form of deferred compensation paid after retirement in lieu of the receipt of greater compensation during the period of employment (see Majauskas v. Majauskas, 61 N.Y.2d 481, 491-492). Pension rights earned during a marriage, prior to a separation agreement or matrimonial action, are marital property subject to equitable distribution (id. at 490-491). While certain assets created after the divorce do not constitute marital property, enhanced retirement income is marital property subject to equitable distribution, since a non-employee spouse is entitled to share in the pension of the employee spouse as it is ultimately determined (see Olivo v. Olivo, 82 N.Y.2d 202, 209-210). As VSF benefits and COLAs are merely supplements and enhancements to already existing pension benefits, the non-employee spouse is entitled to an equitable share (see DeLuca v. DeLuca, 97 N.Y.2d 139; Johnson v. Johnson, 297 A.D.2d 279; Flores v. Flores, 22 AD3d 372; Ross v. Ross, 16 AD3d 713, 714).
We reject the defendant's argument that the plaintiff is not entitled to a share of the defendant's VSF because the Agreement did not specifically provide for such payments. The defendant incorrectly relies upon cases which have held that parties must explicitly provide for an allocation of pre-retirement death benefits in a settlement/separation agreement in order for the non-employee spouse to receive an equitable share of those benefits (see Kazel v. Kazel, 3 NY3d 331, 334-335). Death benefits, unlike pension enhancements, are separate interests, independent of retirement benefits (id. at 334). Thus, in order for a non-employee spouse to be entitled to a share of the other spouse's death benefits, the parties must make specific provision for such entitlement in their marital agreement (id.). It was not necessary for the Agreement to specifically provide for the plaintiff to receive an equitable share of the VSF benefits and COLAs, because they were merely supplements to the existing pension asset (see Olivo v. Olivo, supra at 210). Accordingly, the QDRO signed by the Supreme Court should have conformed with the Olivo principles to ensure that the plaintiff realized her right to share in the pension benefits as they are ultimately determined (see Silver v. Silver, 278 A.D.2d 478, 479).
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| September 20, 2006 |
| Are You Entitled to Attorneys Fees to Contest Your Pre Nup? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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In 1996 Four Days before the Kessler's married, the future Mrs. Kessler, executed a prenuptial agreement waiving all of her rights to her husbands property, including the right to get attorneys fees in the event of a divorce. When marital bliss fell apart in 2002, Mrs. Kessler wanted to renegotiate, however, her agreement provided that she could not even make a claim for attorney fees. The Appellate divison agreed with her, sometimes right wins over might.....See the opinion....
Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Second Department, New York.
Lynda G. KESSLER, respondent,
v.
John A. KESSLER, appellant.
July 11, 2006
Banks Shapiro Gettinger & Waldinger, LLP, Mount Kisco, N.Y. (Mona D. Shapiro of counsel), for appellant.
Kramer Kozek, LLP, White Plains, N.Y. (Barry Abbott of counsel), for respondent.
HOWARD MILLER, J.P., DAVID S. RITTER, GLORIA GOLDSTEIN, and MARK C. DILLON, JJ.
RITTER, J.
On June 4, 1996, four days before their marriage, the parties executed a prenuptial agreement making limited provision for the wife during the marriage and leaving her with little or nothing should the parties divorce. In March 2002 the wife commenced this action, inter alia, for a divorce and ancillary relief. The wife sought, among other things, rescission or reformation of the prenuptial agreement. Further, she alleged, the agreement was breached by the husband. The husband sought, inter alia, a determination that the prenuptial agreement was valid and enforceable, and entry of a judgment as to economic issues in accordance with the same. The parties agreed that the Supreme Court should determine the enforceability of the prenuptial agreement first. Thus, in October 2003, after the issue of custody of the parties' two children was settled on the eve of trial, the Supreme Court held a hearing concerning the validity and enforceability of the prenuptial agreement. The court also considered whether the attorney's fee provision of the agreement should be held unenforceable as against public policy. The Supreme Court rejected the wife's arguments that the agreement was void because she entered it under duress or that it was unconscionable as a whole. Further, the court found that the wife failed to prove that the husband breached the agreement by failing to pay his share of the joint household account. However, the court held that the portion of the agreement waiving the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee was unconscionable and unenforceable in light of the strong public policy embodied in Domestic Relations Law § 237(a). Because the wife has not appealed, the only issue presented is the enforceability of the waiver of her right to seek an award of an attorney's fee. We affirm the Supreme Court's determination that the wife's waiver of her right to seek an award of an attorney's fee is unenforceable.
Paragraph 2 of the parties' prenuptial agreement defined the separate property of each party. Schedules appended to the agreement list each parties' assets. The wife's assets were valued at $135,596. The husband's assets were valued at almost $4,000,000, and consisted of bank and brokerage accounts, real property (including the marital home), and stock in his closely-held company, Indoor Courts of America (hereinafter ICA). The values assigned must be accepted as reported because each party waived the right to any further disclosure concerning the other's assets. Separate property was expansively defined to include all proceeds from the sale, exchange, or other disposition of separate property; any replacement property acquired from the proceeds of the same; and all property purchased during the marriage with one party's sole and separate funds and owned either by that party alone or by that party and another party who is not a spouse.
Paragraph 5 of the agreement established what was to occur in the event the marriage was terminated other than by death (i.e., by divorce). Under paragraph 5, each party retained his or her separate property as defined in Paragraph 2 in the same manner and to the same extent as if the marriage had not taken place. Only property accumulated during the course of the marriage, excluding the separate property as defined, was available for division between the parties. If there were no children, the husband was entitled to immediate exclusive possession of the marital home. If, as is the case, children were born of the marriage and were still minors at the time of the divorce, the agreement provided that the matter of occupancy of the marital home was to be determined by the court. Paragraph 5 also contained the language at issue on this appeal: the blanket declaration that "each party shall have no right or claim against the other for support, alimony, attorney fees or costs."
In the event of death, Paragraph 4 provided that each party was entitled to dispose of his or her separate property by will. Should the husband predecease the wife, he agreed to bequeath her the sum of $100,000 in lieu of other bequests. During the course of the marriage, Paragraph 6 provided for a joint household account into which each party was to make regular and equal payments in an unspecified amount. The parties agreed to use this account to pay, inter alia, "normal maintenance, repairs and upkeep" on the marital home.
Preliminarily, we note, it is not disputed that the prenuptial agreement does not address the issue of child custody or child support for the parties' two minor children. Indeed, at the beginning of the hearing, the parties expressly stipulated that the word "support" as used in Paragraph 5, was not intended and should not to be interpreted to mean child support. Consequently, an award of an attorney's fee relating to child custody and child support issues is not controlled by the prenuptial agreement, but rather by Domestic Relations Law § 237 (see Alvares-Correa v. Alvares-Correa, 285 A.D.2d 123). The waiver of the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee contained in Paragraph 5 of the agreement is limited to the subject matter addressed by that paragraph, namely, issues of equitable distribution. The significance and potential complexity of the issues remaining concerning the same is made manifest by the record. At the hearing, counsel for the wife expressly noted that, regardless of whether or not the prenuptial agreement was upheld, there were issues concerning "what property is in the agreement and what property is not." Further, he noted, there was property acquired since the agreement, and "there's money that goes in and there's money that goes out." We note that the parties' joint tax return for 2001, which, in the main, concerns the husband's assets, spans 78 pages of the record. In sum, the enforcement of the waiver of an attorney's fee contained in Paragraph 5 could have a significant impact on the litigation.
The enforceability of a provision of a prenuptial agreement waiving the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee presents a clash of two competing public policies-that in favor of resolving marital issues by agreement and that in favor of assuring that matrimonial matters are determined by parties operating on a level playing field.
In general, New York has a "strong public policy favoring individuals ordering and deciding their own interests through contractual arrangements" (Matter of Greiff, 92 N.Y.2d 341, 344; see Bloomfield v. Bloomfield, 97 N.Y.2d 188). However, this right is not and has never been without limitation. For example, parties may not enter into a contract in violation of the Federal or State constitution, a statute, an ordinance, or a regulation, and contracts may be set aside or held void as unconscionable or in violation of public policy (see e.g. Public Serv. Mut. Ins. Co. v. Goldfarb, 53 N.Y.2d 392; Sternaman v. Metropolitan Life Ins. Co., 170 N.Y. 13; Ross v. Clyde Beatty-Cole Bros. Circus, 26 AD3d 321; Christ Gatzonis Elec. Contr. v. New York City School Constr. Auth., 297 A.D.2d 272).
The right to enter into a contractual arrangement as to matrimonial matters is expressly authorized by Domestic Relations Law § 236(B)(3), which provides: "An agreement by the parties, made before or during the marriage, shall be valid and enforceable in a matrimonial action if such agreement is in writing, subscribed by the parties, and acknowledged or proven in the manner required to entitle a deed to be recorded." This provision "authorizes spouses or prospective spouses to contract out of the elaborate statutory system and provide for matters such as inheritance, distribution or division of property, spousal support, and child custody and care in the event that the marriage ends" (Matisoff v. Dobi, 90 N.Y.2d 127, 132; see Christian v. Christian, 42 N.Y.2d 63; Matter of Davis, 20 N.Y.2d 70; Paruch v. Paruch, 140 A.D.2d 418, 420). However, the State is deeply concerned with marriage and takes a supervisory role in matrimonial proceedings. In a related context, the Court of Appeals stated, "courts have thrown their cloak of protection about separation agreements and made it their business, when confronted, to see to it that they are arrived at fairly and equitably, in a manner so as to be free from the taint of fraud and duress, and to set aside or refuse to enforce those born of and subsisting in inequity" (Christian v. Christian, supra at 72). Indeed, in numerous contexts, agreements addressing matrimonial issues have been subjected to limitations and scrutiny beyond that afforded contracts in general. For example, an agreement concerning the amount and duration of spousal maintenance must be fair and reasonable at the time it is made, and not unconscionable at the time of entry of final judgment in the divorce action (see Domestic Relations Law § 236[B][3]; Deckoff v. Deckoff, 284 A.D.2d 426). Further, no spouse may relieve the other of the requirement of support to the extent that the spouse may become a public charge (see Bloomfield v. Bloomfield, supra ). An agreement as to child support must set forth the amount of child support that would be owed under the relevant guidelines and, if the amount agreed to deviates from the same, an explanation why (see Domestic Relations Law § 240[1-b][h] ). Moreover, even if the agreement complies with the statutory requirements, the courts "retain discretion with respect to child support" (Domestic Relations Law § 240[1-b][h]; see Matter of Gravlin v. Ruppert, 98 N.Y.2d 1, 5; Pecora v. Cerillo, 207 A.D.2d 215, 217). Similarly, a prenuptial agreement as to child custody is not binding on the court (see Friederwitzer v. Friederwitzer, 55 N.Y.2d 89; Fanelli v. Fanelli, 215 A.D.2d 718). Nor is an agreement concerning the physical location of a child subject to a joint or shared custody arrangement (see Tropea v. Tropea, 87 N.Y.2d 727). In short, the statutory scheme may trump an agreement if there is an inconsistency.
The Domestic Relations Law does not expressly address the right to enter into an agreement concerning an attorney's fee in a matrimonial action. However, Domestic Relations Law § 237(a) authorizes the court to "direct either spouse ... to pay such sum or sums of money directly to the attorney of the other spouse to enable that spouse to carry on or defend the action or proceeding as, in the court's discretion, justice requires, having regard to the circumstances of the case and of the respective parties" (see DeCabrera v. Carrera-Rosette, 70 N.Y.2d 879). This represents a statutory exception to the general rule that an attorney's fee is an incident of litigation to be borne by the respective parties (see Matter of A.G. Ship Maintenance Corp. v. Lezak, 69 N.Y.2d 1, 5). Further, it is more than a mere permissive legislative grant of authority to award an attorney's fee.
"[Domestic Relations Law § 237], which has deep statutory roots, is designed to redress the economic disparity between the monied spouse and the non-monied spouse. Recognizing that the financial strength of matrimonial litigants is often unequal-working most typically against the wife-the Legislature invested Trial Judges with the discretion to make the more affluent spouse pay for legal expenses of the needier one. The courts are to see to it that the matrimonial scales of justice are not unbalanced by the weight of the wealthier litigant's wallet."
(O'Shea v. O'Shea, 93 N.Y.2d 187, 190). Thus, Domestic Relations Law § 237 embodies a public policy determination by the Legislature that matrimonial matters are best resolved by parties operating on a level playing field (cf. DelDuca v. DelDuca, 304 A.D.2d 610).
However, not every agreement waiving the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee should be set aside. Rather, careful and individualized scrutiny is called for. The determination as to whether or not a provision waiving the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee is enforceable must be made on a case-by-case basis after weighing the competing public policy interests in light of all relevant facts and circumstances both at the time the agreement was entered and at the time it is to be enforced. If, upon such an inquiry, the court determines that enforcement of the provision would preclude the non-monied spouse from carrying on or defending a matrimonial action or proceeding as justice requires, the provision may be held unenforceable. Also relevant to such a determination is the conduct of the parties over the course of the matrimonial action. Such a determination is frequently best made at the conclusion of the action. However, because an attorney's fee is authorized when needed to carry on or defend an action, it may be necessary to make such a determination at an earlier point in the litigation. Here, although the Supreme Court contemplated the need for an interim award of an attorney's fee, apparently, an award was not made, leaving the issue to be determined at trial. Thus, the issue of the amount, if any, of such an award is not before this court on appeal. However, to the extent that such an award would otherwise be subject to the waiver contained in the prenuptial agreement, the Supreme Court, after careful and individualized scrutiny of the need for the same, may award the wife an attorney's fee as justice requires to enable her to carry on or defend issues of equitable distribution.
There is a great disparity between the relative financial positions of the parties in this action both at the time the prenuptial agreement was executed and at the time this action was commenced. The net value of the wife's separate property as set forth in the schedule appended to the prenuptial agreement was $135,596, while the net value of the husband's separate property was almost $4,000,000. Further, as also noted, the husband's wealth was, in the main, held in financial accounts, real property, and stock. This gives particular significance to the provision of the prenuptial agreement which includes among separate property all proceeds from the sale, exchange, or other disposition of separate property, and any replacement property acquired from the proceeds of the same. Indeed, such a provision, in conjunction with the provision precluding the award of spousal maintenance, regardless of the length of the marriage, meant that the prenuptial agreement provided the wife with little more than a limited right to occupy the marital home (which remained the husband's separate property) during the course of the marriage. Further, although less developed on the record, the disparity between the parties' relative financial positions has increased. The wife's 2002 statement of net worth shows total assets of $160,034 and a net worth of $135,234; essentially the same as when she entered the marriage. The husband's 2002 statement of net worth shows his total assets have grown to $5,626,224.15. Further, although the husband claims a negative net worth of $1,376,138.53, this figure appears open to challenge. For example, $3,700,000 of claimed debt is for contingent liabilities on the husband's personal guarantees of the corporate debt of his company, ICA. In his 2002 net worth statement, the husband values ICA at $416,650. However, in the list of property appended to the prenuptial agreement, the husband valued his stock in ICA at the sum of over $2,000,000. Further, in his 2002 net worth statement, the husband appears to significantly undervalue the marital home at $700,000. The home, which is very large and sits on four acres of property in Westchester County, was purchased in 1991 (more than 10 years earlier) for $420,000, and has since been improved with, inter alia, a pool and a tennis court. In short, there remains a great disparity between the relative financial wealth of the parties.
Despite this great disparity, the prenuptial agreement reflects no consideration given to the specific facts and circumstances of the parties as they relate to an award of an attorney's fee. Rather, although the wife came into the marriage with minimal assets compared to the husband, and the prenuptial agreement helped assure that this imbalance remained, the agreement provides for a blanket waiver of the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee (among other things), regardless of the length of the marriage or what occurred therein. Thus, the agreement does not provide for any consideration to be given at the time of the matrimonial action to the various issues relevant to an award of an attorney's fee, including, inter alia, the quantity and complexity of the issues to be litigated, and the relative means of the parties to do so. Indeed, here, by the time of the hearing, both parties had already incurred substantial attorney's fees. The husband testified that he had paid the sum of $75,000 in attorney's fees and owed the sum of approximately $75,000 more. The wife testified that she incurred the sum of approximately $165,000 in attorney and related expert fees. Moreover, although it cannot be determined on the record presented how much of this amount was incurred on matters related to child support and child custody, which, as discussed, is not controlled by the prenuptial agreement, and/or how much was incurred by the wife pursuant to her unsuccessful effort to rescind or reform the prenuptial agreement, which is not compensable pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 237 (see Schapiro v. Schapiro, 204 A.D.2d 87, 88; Lamborn v. Lamborn, 56 A.D.2d 623; see also Anonymous v. Anonymous, 258 A.D.2d 547), the amounts alone are telling and suggest that, in the absence of at least a determination as to whether an award of an attorney's fee is warranted pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 237 as they concern matters arising under Paragraph 5 of the agreement, the matrimonial scales will be skewed in favor of the husband's heavier wallet. The wealthier spouse should not be permitted, by the same agreement, to both opt out of the statutory scheme concerning an award of an attorney's fee and prevent an effective assessment of how important an award of an attorney's fee may be. Moreover, whether or not either party here has improperly prolonged the litigation, or created needless litigation, etc., should also be considered by the court in determining the amount, if any, of an award of an attorney's fee to the wife.
In sum, on the record presented, weighing the competing public policy interests in light of all of the relevant facts and circumstances as developed on the record, the Supreme Court did not err in determining that the provision of the parties' prenuptial agreement waiving the right to seek an award of an attorney's fee was unenforceable. Thus, we affirm the order insofar as appealed from.
ORDERED that the order is affirmed insofar as appealed from, on the law, with costs.
MILLER, J.P., GOLDSTEIN and DILLON, JJ., concur.
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| September 19, 2006 |
| Father's Rights... Do they Exist? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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Many women feel that they can prevent the father of their children from seeing thier child or children. The women feel that the father is a bum, that he will not properly supervise them, that he will teach the children the wrong things, etc. In New York, the Courts try to work towards resolving all custody disputes...
If the mother has legitimate concerns, like physical violence. or if the father has a drug problem, etc. The Courts can direct the father into the appropriate programs. However, all fathers will get some type of visitation with their children, and as long as the father stays with the recommendations of the Court, he will eventually have his children on a regular basis. Just becaseu a mother makes complaints does not mean that the Courts are going to listen.
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| September 19, 2006 |
| I want more than half.... |
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cannot tell you how many times a client or potential client comes to my office and says they are entitled to more than half of all of the assets. Sometimes a client will tell me that they want to give thier spouse nothing. I tell them......
It is a rare case where one spouse will recieve nothing out of the property acquired during the marriage in New York. There are a number of factors which govern how Judges should decide in New York about the divsion of marital property. The first question every Judge asks me is have the parties lived together for most of the marriage and are their any children. If you have lived with your spouse for most of your marriage and their has been some sort of economic partnership, generally Judges want to resolve the case by splitting the assets in half. Judge because you think your husband or wife is good for nothing, does not mean that a Judge will think the same way. If your husband or wife is trulely worthless, i.e. he abuses your, uses drugs, refuses to work, etc... Judges will generally give that person less than half.
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| September 16, 2006 |
| Is New York State Ready for No Fault Divorce? |
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A matrimonial commission established by the state's chief judge, Judith Kaye, has recommended that New York join with the rest of the nation and enact a no-fault divorce law.
In my opinion forcing parties to admit or be found at fault is time consuming and costly, and generates bitterness during the divorce process. In New York, couples who agree to a divorce have two options. They can sign a separation agreement and live apart for a year, at which time a divorce becomes final. Or, if they want to sever ties more quickly, they can cite one of four grounds under which a divorce can be granted in New York -- adultery, cruelty, abandonment for a year or more, or imprisonment for three years or more. Not surprisingly, many couples who want to end their relationship quickly agree to lie about one of these grounds in order to obtain a divorce. Thus, they end their marriage on a mutual note of perjury. Judges through the State of New York regualy tell litigants to agree on a ground for divorce. The most common agreement is constructive abandonment.
It is ridiculous that during the course of a contested litigation in New York over issues of custody, visitation and equitable distribution that Lawyers and Judges have to pursuade the parties to swear to grounds that they are not comportable with. Unfortunately, this is the system we have in New York
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| September 16, 2006 |
| Can the Judge Require Life Insurance? |
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What is SPECIAL RELIEF?
It is relief that the court may grant a party directing his/her spouse to provide insurance for the benefit of his/her spouse or his/her children.
When is special Relief available?
In any matrimonial action.
What can Court order a party to do?
Purchase, maintain or assign a policy of insurance for health and hospital care and related services for either spouse or children;
Purchase, maintain or assign a policy of insurance on the life of either spouse and designate either spouse or children of the marriage as irrevocable beneficiary;
Are there any restrictions or limitations on the court's ability to order Special Relief"?
The policy of insurance for health and hospital care and related services for either spouse or children cannot be for longer than party is obligated to pay maintenance, child support or a distributive award;
The life insurance may be during a period of time fixed by the Court but the beneficiaries' interest must terminate upon the termination of the spouse's obligation to pay maintenance, child support, a distributive award, or when the beneficiary remarries or predeceases the insured.
By Joel Brandeis P.C.
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| September 16, 2006 |
| Seven Fatal Mistakes in Settlement |
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The 7 Most Costly Mistakes
Each year there are nearly 1 million divorces in the United States, or about 50% of all marriages (2002 United States Census Bureau statistics). The real tragedy, however, is the financial devastation that occurs to many individuals after their divorce.
Too often, a divorcing individual accepts an unfair settlement and finds that a few years later he or she is experiencing serious financial challenges. Was he or she intimidated or pressured to settle? Did the offer appear to be equitable? What ever the reason, this outcome can be significantly improved upon, if not altogether avoided, if you first understand the seven most costly financial mistakes commonly made in divorce settlements.
Following are brief summaries of these seven mistakes. Each of these areas can be quite complex, so we strongly recommend that you consult a professional prior to making a financial decision that may affect the rest of your life.
This list is not exhaustive, and depending on the complexity of your case, there may be many more areas that require thorough analysis.
Mistake #1: Not Knowing the Liquidity of Assets
Liquidity refers to the ability to access the cash value of an asset. For example, a bank savings account is highly liquid, because you can simply withdraw funds from an ATM when you need them. An antique automobile, however, is nearly illiquid because it is very difficult to quickly sell this asset to access the actual cash value.
Often in a divorce settlement, one party will receive mostly illiquid assets, including the home, while the other party receives liquid assets such as retirement plans, brokerage accounts etc.
What is the potential problem with this type of settlement?
On the surface, this scenario may appear to be equitable assuming that the home and other assets are of approximately the same value. However, the challenge lies in cash flow. How will the party that keeps the home pay the bills if his or her major asset is illiquid?
One can borrow against the equity of the home, but that's costly (closing costs, interest etc.) and it takes time to close the loan. In worst-case scenarios, the home must be sold, a smaller home is purchased and the remaining equity is utilized for living expenses.
If your proposed financial settlement has very little liquidity, be sure that you will have enough cash flow throughout the years to handle your living expenses. If not, you may have to consider selling the home, other assets or significantly decrease your expenses in order to meet your budgetary needs.
Mistake #2: Failure to Consider the Impact of Taxes
The effect of your settlement on various taxes can be very costly if not addressed thoroughly. Capital gains, income tax, and alimony are just a few of the areas that may be impacted.
Capital gains taxes need to be analyzed when property is being divided. Capital gains refer to the fair market value of an asset minus its cost. For example, if you paid $5 for a share of stock and it is now worth $25, you have a capital gain of $20. This applies to other assets such as real estate (including your home), mutual fund accounts and just about any investment that has appreciated in value.
Be very careful that the property you are receiving in a settlement does not have large capital gains as compared with your ex-spouse's property. Don't be fooled if your spouse offers you property of equal value but conveniently forgets to inform you of the tax liability.
As an example, you may be offered an investment account worth $150,000, but the cost basis is only $50,000. That means there is a gain of $100,000 that you must pay at minimum long-term capital gains tax (15% in 2004). There could possibly be short-term gains as well, which are taxed at your own marginal tax rate (as high as 35% in 2004).
In the case of your personal residence, the federal government eased the tax burden in 1997 by allowing a $250,000 capital gain exclusion per spouse if you've lived in your home for at least 2 of the past 5 years. If the home is to be sold and there is a considerable gain in value (over $250,000), you should consider selling before the divorce to take advantage of the full $500,000 exemption.
If you had sold a home prior to 1997 and rolled over the capital gain to the existing home, the old rules will apply to determine the cost basis of the current home. This will increase your gain and possibly further the need to sell while still married.
Income taxes are effected primarily by alimony payments and filing status. Alimony received is taxable as ordinary income, so a $50,000 payment received is actually worth $35,000 after taxes, assuming a 30% marginal state and federal tax bracket.
On the other hand, the payer of alimony receives a tax deduction, so the same $50,000 payment actually costs the taxpayer $35,000 assuming the same tax bracket.
Filing status is an important decision after the divorce. If you were still married on 12/31 of the tax year, you have the option of filing a joint return. If you can peacefully deal with your spouse after the divorce, you should consider this option as it could save considerable tax for both parties.
If you were divorced after 12/31 and you qualify, filing as head of household versus single can also save considerable tax dollars. Your best course of action is to consult with a tax professional regarding these options.
Mistake #3: Not Understanding the Rules of Retirement Accounts
Retirement accounts are a tax related issue, but their complexity merits a separate category. If a large portion of your settlement consists of retirement assets, you need to be aware of the many tax ramifications and potential penalties involved.
Normally, distributions from a retirement plan prior to age 591/2 are considered "early distributions" and are subject to a 10% penalty tax as well as ordinary income tax. An exception to this rule, however, is a transfer to an ex-spouse as part of a divorce settlement. A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is used to affect this transfer. Income taxes still apply, so any assets you receive from a "qualified plan", such as a 401(k), will be subject to a mandatory 20% tax withholding. For example, if you are awarded a $100,000 distribution from an ex-spouses 401(k) you will actually receive only $80,000.
To avoid this mandatory withholding, the transfer must be made directly to another retirement account, such as your own IRA. Once the assets are in your retirement account, you are now subject to the early distribution rules. If you need some of the assets to live on, or pay bills, make sure you take them out prior to transferring them to an IRA to avoid the 10% penalty.
To simplify, let's look at an actual example of how this transfer works:
Barbara and Stanley are both age 55 and going through a divorce. Stanley has $560,000 in his 401(k) that will be divided by a QDRO, transferring $280,000 to Barbara.
She could transfer the money directly to her IRA and pay no taxes until she starts withdrawing funds after age 591/2, at which time she would pay ordinary income tax on the amount withdrawn. But Barbara needs $80,000 for a down payment on a new house. So she holds back $100,000 before transferring the remaining amount to her IRA. 20% is withheld for taxes, leaving her with $80,000 to spend without incurring a 10% penalty.
After she transfers the remaining $180,000 to her IRA, Barbara is held to the early withdrawal rule. If she says, "Oh, I forgot, I need another $10,000 to buy a car," it is too late. She will have to pay the 10% penalty and the taxes on that money.
It is important to note that IRA's are not qualified plans, so a QDRO is not needed to divide the assets. Also, there is no 20% mandatory tax withholding on a transfer. To avoid paying taxes, you must deposit any distribution from an IRA directly to your own IRA. If a check is sent to you, you must deposit the money into your own IRA within 60 days to avoid a taxable distribution.
Mistake #4: Overlooking Debt and Credit Rating Issues
Nothing is worse than starting out a new life with bad credit. Several steps can be taken during the divorce process to minimize the chances of this occurring.
First, obtain a copy of your credit report. This will identify all joint accounts, accounts you may not have been aware of, and any potential credit problems.
Next, be sure to pay off and close all joint accounts prior to the divorce settlement and open new accounts in your own name. Unfortunately, creditors don't care how a separation agreement divides responsibility for joint debt (joint credit cards, auto loans etc.). Each person is liable for the full amount of debt until the balance is paid, hence the importance of dealing with this issue prior to your divorce.
Regarding income tax debt, even if the divorce is final, you may not be exempt from future tax liability. For three years after the divorce, the IRS can perform a random audit of a divorced couple's joint tax return. If it has good cause, the IRS can question a joint return for seven years.
To avoid any potential problems down the road, your divorce agreement should have provisions that spell out what happens if any additional penalties, interest or taxes are found as well as where the funds come from to pay for any expenses associated with an audit.
Mistake #5: Not Maintaining Control Over Insurance Policies
Most divorce decrees call for one of the parties to obtain a life insurance policy to insure the value of alimony payments, child support or some other financial need. If you are the person for whom the insurance is obtained, it is critical that you are either the owner or irrevocable beneficiary of the policy.
If you are not, the ex-spouse who took out the policy could easily stop making payments and you would never know about it until the policy is needed and it no longer exists. This could be financially devastating. As the owner or irrevocable beneficiary, you would be notified of any outstanding issues with the policy, such as non-payment of the premium, and could therefore take action and prevent the policy from lapsing or being cancelled.
Mistake #6: Failure to Budget
One of the most common mistakes made post-divorce is the failure to budget based on one's new lifestyle. We see this happen most often when one spouse keeps the home for the sake of the children or perhaps due to an emotional attachment. Because of the high value of the home, there are few other assets awarded in the settlement. The expense of maintaining the home and the lack of liquid assets often results in a rapid depletion of cash, leaving no choice but to sell the home.
This scenario can be avoided if you take a good hard look at your expenses versus liquid assets and income. A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst can help you project several years into the future and determine if you'll have enough resources to support your current lifestyle as well as your retirement years.
This analysis should be completed prior to a settlement. If it is determined that you will be unable to maintain your lifestyle with the proposed offer, you have established a good case to request more assets, alimony or child support.
Mistake #7: Failure to Identify Hidden Assets
Hopefully, you're not in a situation where you distrust your spouse and fear there are hidden assets that should be included in the settlement. Unfortunately, once a divorce is initiated, many individuals will do whatever they can to preserve what they feel is their own money. Some individuals maintain secret accounts or other financial activities throughout an entire marriage. If these assets are not exposed, one spouse is certain to obtain an unfair settlement.
There are multiple resources and methods used by financial professionals and attorneys to uncover potential hidden assets. Being aware of these may help you avoid being victimized by a dishonest spouse. Forensic accountants are generally the most commonly utilized professionals to assist in this area.
Tax returns are one of the best places to start. Most people are uneasy about misleading the IRS for fear of penalties, fines and even prison. Go back at least 5 years to look for any inconsistencies in income, the presence of trusts, partnerships or real estate holdings.
If your spouse is a business owner, corporate or partnership returns may show a change in salary, charging personal expenses to the company, or excessive retained earnings. Another common trick is to put a "friend" on the payroll, who agrees to give back the money paid to him after the divorce. A forensic tax professional is of tremendous help in this area.
Checking account statements and cancelled checks for the past few years can also be quite revealing. A cancelled check for a purchase you never knew about, such as an investment property, can make a substantial difference in total assets to be divided.
Savings accounts may reveal unusual deposits or withdrawals in amount or pattern that could point to a hidden asset such as a dividend producing investment. In addition, cash may be hidden almost anywhere.
Brokerage statements are valuable in tracking the purchase and sale of securities. If securities are sold and the proceeds are not accounted for, you can be sure that the assets are out there somewhere.
Expense accounts can be abused when corporations give employees a great deal of leeway in their expense account reporting. Cross checking between expense account disbursements and savings/checking account deposits may indicate a pattern of abuse if the deposits exceed legitimate business expenditures.
Children's bank accounts may be opened as a custodial account for the intent of hiding assets as well. In some of these cases, interest is not reported as income on tax returns, and no return is filed for the children.
This is not an exhaustive list of places to look for hidden assets. If you suspect this is occurring, you owe it to yourself to seek help from a financial professional.
In Summary
There are thousands of articles, books, manuals and other publications written about the financial issues of divorce. It is a complex area, and certainly deserves the attention it gets.
But reading this article or any other resource will probably not make you an expert. If you think you may not be receiving fair treatment, or you are simply uncomfortable dealing with these issues, it might make sense for you to consult with a financial professional who is trained specifically in divorce related issues.
A Certified Divorce Financial AnalystTM (CDFA) has endured extensive training in the financial issues of divorce. He or she will analyze the long-term financial impact of a proposed settlement and help you determine if it is feasible. Remember that a proposed settlement might look fair initially, but without proper analysis and forward looking projections, it can lead you to a future of financial hardship.
The bottom line is don't settle until you know how it will affect your financial future!
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Article submitted February 2005 by William Donaldson and Adam Westphalen
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| September 16, 2006 |
| Settle Early |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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The best advice I can give to some clients is to settle their divorce case early, if they are fully informed of all the facts of their case. What do I mean? Lets say that your husband is feeling guilty about something he did, like cheating on you...
Many times a spouse with a guilty conscience is willing to settle their divorce case on favorable terms to thier wife or husband in some cases. Guilt is a great motivator. However, as a divorce case drags on in the courts the guilty conscience heals or they hire a lawyer who can talk them out of giving everything away. The moral of the story is if you see a great deal on the table, take it. People change their minds. What is being offered in the begining of the divorce case may not be what ultimately happens.
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| September 13, 2006 |
| Failure to Pay Any Support |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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I recently was in Court, arguing my contempt motion in New York Supreme Court and a wealthy business man who owns a number of bakerys and he told the Judge he makes no money.....
He has not paid any child support or maintenance in over a year and is facing a stiff jail sentence if he does not provide child support for his children and maintenace for his wife. The Judge originally ordered combined temporary support in the amount of Fifteen Thousand Dollars per month. The husbands strategy was to cry poverty and he did not pay a dime for over a year. His stupidity lies in the fact that he paid no money for over a year. He should have sent partial payments, or at least made his best efforts. This particular litigant has alienated the divorce Judge and will loss everything at his trial.
If your want to be win your divorce case in New York, do not do things to get a Supreme Court Judge in New York mad a you. You can be rude to dry cleaner, but not to a Judge who is deciding your case. You would think this advice is obvious, however, you would be surprised at how many people act without any thought during their divorce case in NY.
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| September 06, 2006 |
| Financial Penalty For Spousal Abuse |
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Last week, New York Judge Jacqueline Silbermann sent a strong message to abusive spouses. In the case of DeSilva v. DeSilva, she ruled, in a divorce, that a wife was entitled to one hundred percent of the couple's marital property because her husband had verbally and physically abused her. .......
Judge Silbermann has come down hard on abusive spouses before: In 2001, in another divorce case, Havell v. Islam, she made headlines for awarding ninety-five percent of a couple's marital property to the wife, because the husband had brutally attacked her with a barbell, leaving her with near-fatal and permanent injuries. (I discussed the case in more detail in an earlier column for this site.) Judge Silbermann reasoned that because the husband's behavior "shocks the conscience," it was appropriate to deviate from the property division that might otherwise be appropriate.
In this year's DeSilva case, the husband's behavior was far less egregious than the barbell attack at issue in Havell -- and yet was used to justify an even greater deviation from the usual division of marital property. With this broadened definition of "egregious" behavior, Judge Silbermann has opened the door, in property division proceedings, to consideration of marital misconduct, more generally, in the allocation of marital property.
The DeSilvas' Marriage and Divorce: Misconduct, Some Assets, More Debt
In the DeSilva case, Mrs. DeSilva alleged that Mr. DeSilva had engaged in a long history of abuse toward her, which, she said, had increased over time in frequency and intensity, and involved his heavy drinking. Among other allegations, she said he spat in her face; while she was pregnant with their second child, threw a packed duffel bag at her stomach; and engaged in verbal tirades, during which he called her unspeakable names, often in front of their children and other people as well. Mrs. DeSilva testified that she feared for her safety and the safety of her children, and suffered extreme mental anguish because of her husband's conduct; indeed, he had been arrested at least five times as a result of physical altercations with other people, such as a coworker and a cabdriver.
At the time Mrs. DeSilva sought a divorce, the couple held less than $45,000 in assets, including a car, her pension, and the cash-surrender value of their life insurance policies, but had about $65,000 in debt. Mr. and Mrs. DeSilva had disparate earnings and earnings potential. She had a degree in fashion design and had recently held a job earning $100,000 per year. He had a degree in marketing, but earned less than half of what she did -- $45,000 per year.
Mrs. DeSilva clearly alleged and proved sufficient abuse to gain a divorce on grounds of extreme cruelty, even under New York's relatively strict laws. The tougher question in a case like this is how to apportion the couple's assets and debts and, more importantly, whether one party's misconduct ought to be part of the calculus.
Equitable Distribution: Who Gets Marital Property and Marital Debts?
When couples divorce, courts are often saddled with the task of dividing their property. In most states, this process is guided by the principle of "equitable distribution," under which the property a couple has accumulated during marriage (and even the property they brought to the marriage, in some states) will be fairly apportioned between them. Courts are rarely given unfettered discretion in this process, but, instead, are guided by legislatively mandated factors to consider.
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New York's equitable distribution law, Domestic Relations Law § 236(b)(5)(d), provides thirteen factors that courts must consider before dividing marital property. Most of the factors relate directly to economic information such as past earnings, the amount of property the parties brought to the marriage, their expected future income and property acquisition, the tax consequences of property distribution, and whether either party wasted assets during the marriage or transferred them to avoid distribution. In addition, courts are directed to consider non-economic factors such as the duration of the marriage, the age and health of the parties, and the need for a custodial parent to keep the marital residence.
With respect to these many factors, the trial judge in the DeSilva case found only a few to be relevant: Judge Silbermann held that the plaintiff should continue to occupy the marital residence because she had custody of the couple's two small children; that she greatly out-earned him; and that his future financial circumstances were uncertain because of alcohol abuse and anger issues that made it difficult for him to retain jobs.
On these findings alone, a court might well have given Mr. DeSilva a slightly greater, or at least an equal share, of the couple's assets, and perhaps a smaller proportion of the debts -- given his predicted lower future income stream. But here's where the thirteenth factor comes into play: New York's equitable distribution law also directs courts to consider "any other factor which the court shall expressly find to be just and proper."
Here, Judge Silbermann noted, "a pattern of conduct involving both physical and verbal abuse which rises to the level of egregious fault." And, based primarily on that finding, the judge awarded one hundred percent of the marital assets to Mrs. DeSilva and ninety-two percent of the debts to Mr. DeSilva.
Different States' Views on the Role of Marital Misconduct in Property Division
The decision to strip Mr. DeSilva of any marital assets and saddle him with most of the marital debts may seem an obvious penalty - or an outrageous one, I suppose, depending on your point of view -- for abusing his wife. In most states, however, a court would simply not be permitted to consider his behavior during the marriage, no matter how egregious, when apportioning marital property.
But New York is not "most states" when it comes to family law. Most states - every other one, in fact - permit couples to obtain a "no-fault" divorce, where either party can unilaterally seek to have the marriage legally dissolved, even if the desire is not mutual, and even if they cannot agree on post-marital issues like custody, alimony, and the division of property. In New York, however, a spouse must allege and prove marital fault in order to obtain a divorce, or the couple, together, must agree to separate and file a written agreement resolving these issues without court intervention.
Unsurprisingly, most states that - unlike New York -- prohibit or discourage the consideration of fault in determining whether to grant a divorce similarly restrict consideration of fault for related issues like marital property division. Two influential compilations separated by more than thirty years - the Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act (1970) and the American Law Institute's Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution (2002) - take the view that consideration of fault has no place in property division proceedings. And nearly two-thirds of the states follow this view, disallowing consideration of fault entirely for property division purposes. (The rules regarding the consideration of fault in setting alimony awards can be different, as I discussed in a prior column.)
The remainder of states do permit consideration of fault in marital property division, though often only in limited circumstances.
Among them is New York -- which permits courts to consider marital misconduct as part of the "any other factor" analysis, but only if it is egregious.
Why the Judge's Ruling Was Right: Penalizing Domestic Violence
To reach the property division result in the DeSilva case, the judge had to hold that Mr. DeSilva's behavior constituted egregious fault, in that it "shocked the conscience." In prior cases, attempted murder of a wife, and a man's rape of his stepdaughter, both qualified under the standard. And in Havell v Islam - which the judge herself had decided, as noted above, in 2001 - the standard was held to encompass domestic violence as well.
In Havell, the husband quite literally beat his wife within an inch of her life, and, as a result, she was awarded ninety-five percent of a $13 million marital estate. In the opinion, Judge Silbermann looked to the law in other states, as well as to social science evidence about the physical and psychological ramifications of domestic violence for its victims. She concluded that the "egregious fault" standard could be interpreted to include domestic violence.
The conduct in Havell was indeed egregious - almost incomprehensibly so. After beating his wife with a barbell and watching her teeth and parts of her jaw fly across the room, Mr. Islam told their frantic children not to worry about helping her because she was already dead. She survived the attack, but suffered permanent neurological damage. The trial court's ruling in that case was upheld by the appellate division, which concluded that marital misconduct could, indeed, be taken into account when dividing property as long as it was "so egregious or uncivilized as to bespeak of a blatant disregard of the marital relationship."
Does the husband's behavior in DeSilva meet that standard? The shock value of Mrs. DeSilva's story is admittedly less than in Havell. Yet, if a sustained pattern of physical and verbal abuse of a spouse does not meet the requisite standard, perhaps we should think about why: Is domestic violence such a common aspect of some marriages that we deem it within the bounds of the normal and civilized? Let us hope not.
Surely abusing a spouse is one way to exhibit "a blatant disregard of the marital relationship." Thus, if New York were to permit spouses in marriages like the DeSilva's to walk away on equal footing (as many states do), financially, it would be subtly acknowledging the normalcy of the abuser's behavior.
While Justice Silbermann has at least implicitly broadened the category of "egregious" conduct that can justify the consideration of fault in property division, in doing so, she has sent the right message: Domestic violence is not a normal part of marriage and its perpetrators must pay.
By JOANNA GROSSMAN
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| September 06, 2006 |
| Can the Judge Force me to Sell My House? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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In New York State, Judges can force the sale of the marital residence or any property that is deemed to be marital. It is a common misconception among litigants in a divorce case in New York that a Judge will never force the sale of the marital residence......
When young children live in the house, it is common to allow the custodial parient to live in the residence until the children reach eighteen. However, if it can be proven that the custodial parent cannot afford to live in the residence or if you can prove that there is comparable housing in the same neighborhood, a judge may order the sale of the residence.
When one party has a separate property claim to the residence, Judges generally will require the other party to move out of the house at the conclusion of the divorce.
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| September 02, 2006 |
| Tax Deductions |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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When negotiating a child support agreement, it is important for you to take into consideration the applicable tax laws. The IRS only allows the custodial parent to take the deduction unless the custodial parent waives the right to take the deduction in writing. The tax laws have changed recently.
Tax Years 2006 and Later
Earneded Income Credit Amounts Increase
Earned income amount.
The maximum amount of income you can earn and still get the credit is higher for 2006 than it is for 2005. You may be able to take the credit for 2006 if:
You have more than one qualifying child and you earn less than $36,348 ($38,348 if married filing jointly),
You have one qualifying child and you earn less than $32,001 ($34,001 if married filing jointly), or
You do not have a qualifying child and you earn less than $12,120 ($14,120 if married filing jointly).
The maximum amount of adjusted gross income (AGI) you can have and still get the credit has also increased. You may be able to take the credit if your AGI is less than the amount in the above list that applies to you.
Investment income amount.
The maximum amount of investment income you can have in 2006 and still get the credit increases to $2,800.
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Exemption Amount Increased
The amount you can deduct for each exemption has increased from $3,200 in 2005 to $3,300 in 2006.
You lose all or part of the benefit of your exemptions if your adjusted gross income is above a certain amount. The amount at which the phaseout begins depends on your filing status. For 2006, the phaseout begins at:
$112,875 for married persons filing separately,
$150,500 for single individuals,
$188,150 for heads of household, and
$225,750 for married persons filing jointly or qualifying widow(er)s.
If your adjusted gross income is above the amount for your filing status, use the Deduction for Exemptions Worksheet in the Form 1040 instructions to figure the amount you can deduct for exemptions.
Social Security and Medicare Taxes
For 2006, the employer and employee will continue to pay:
6.2% each for social security tax (old-age, survivors, and disability insurance), and
1.45% each for Medicare tax (hospital insurance).
Wage limits. For social security tax, the maximum amount of 2006 wages subject to the tax has increased from $90,000 to $94,200. For Medicare tax, all covered 2006 wages are subject to the tax.
Standard Deduction Amount Increased
The standard deduction for taxpayers who do not itemize deductions on Schedule A of Form 1040 is, in most cases, higher for 2006 than it was for 2005. The amount depends on your filing status, whether you are 65 or older or blind, and whether an exemption can be claimed for you by another taxpayer.
The basic standard deduction amounts for 2006 are:
Head of household -- $7,550
Married taxpayers filing jointly and qualifying widow(er)s -- $10,300
Married taxpayers filing separately -- $5,150
Single -- $5,150
The standard deduction amount for an individual who may be claimed as a dependent by another taxpayer may not exceed the greater of $850 or the sum of $300 and the individual's earned income.
Standard Mileage Rates
For tax years beginning in 2006, the allowable deductions for the standard mileage rate are as follows:
Business miles. The standard mileage rate for the cost of operating your car increases to 44.5 cents a mile for all business miles driven.
Charitable services. The standard mileage rate allowed for use of your car when you use your car to provide charitable services to a charitable organization is 14 cents a mile.
Charitable services -- Hurricane Katrina relief services. If you used your vehicle in giving services to a charitable organization to provide relief related to Hurricane Katrina, the standard mileage rate allowed for use of your car is 32 cents a mile.
Medical reasons. The standard mileage rate allowed for use of your car for medical reasons is 18 cents a mile.
Moving. The standard mileage rate for determining moving expenses is 18 cents a mile.
2006 Federal Income Tax Rate Schedules
The 2006 tax rate schedules are provided so that you can compute your estimated tax for 2006.
Uniform Definition of a Qualifying Child
Beginning in 2005, one definition of a qualifying child will apply for each of the following tax benefits.
Dependency exemption.
Head of household filing status.
Earned income credit (EIC).
Child tax credit.
Credit for child and dependent care expenses.
Tests To Meet
In general, all four of the following tests must be met to claim someone as a qualifying child.
Relationship test.
The child must be your child (including an adopted child, stepchild, or eligible foster child), brother, sister, stepbrother, stepsister, or a descendent of one of these relatives.
An adopted child includes a child lawfully placed with you for legal adoption even if the adoption is not final.
An eligible foster child is any child who is placed with you by an authorized placement agency or by judgement, decree, or other order of any court of competent jurisdiction.
Residency test.
A child must live with you for more than half of the year. Temporary absences for special circumstances, such as for school, vacation, medical care, military service, or detention in a juvenile facility count as time lived at home. A child who was born or died during the year is considered to have lived with you for the entire year if your home was the child's home for the entire time he or she was alive during the year. Also, exceptions apply, in certain cases, for children of divorced or separated parents and parents of kidnapped children.
Age test.
A child must be under a certain age (depending on the tax benefit) to be your qualifying child.
Dependency exemption, head of household filing status, and EIC.
For purposes of these tax benefits, a child must be under the age of 19 at the end of the year, or under age 24 at the end of 2005 if a student, or any age if permanently and totally disabled.
A student is any child who, during any 5 months of the year:
Was enrolled as a full-time student at a school, or
Took a full-time, on-farm training course given by a school or a state, county, or local government agency.
A school includes a technical, trade, or mechanical school. It does not include an on-the-job training course, correspondence school, or night school.
Child tax credit.
For purposes of the child tax credit, a child must be under the age of 17.
Credit for child and dependent care expenses.
For purposes of the credit for child and dependent care expenses, a child must be under the age of 13 or any age if permanently and totally disabled.
Support test.
A child cannot have provided over half of his or her own support during the year.
Exception.
For purposes of the EIC only, the Support test does not apply.
Qualifying Child of More Than One Person
Sometimes a child meets the tests to be a qualifying child of more than one person. However, only one person can treat that child as a qualifying child. If you and someone else (other than your spouse if filing jointly) have the same qualifying child, you and the other person(s) can decide who will claim the child. If you cannot agree on who will claim the child and more than one person files a return using the same child, the IRS may disallow one or more of the claims using the tie-breaker rule explained in Table 1, next.
Table 1. When More Than One Person Files a Return Claiming the Same Qualifying Child (Tie-Breaker Rule).
IF . . . THEN the child will be treated as the qualifying child of the. . .
only one of the persons is the child's parent, parent.
both persons are the child's parent, parent with whom the child lived for the longer period of time. If the child lived with each parent for the same amount of time, then the child will be treated as the qualifying child of the parent with the highest adjusted gross income (AGI).
none of the persons are the child's parent, person with the highest adjusted gross income.
Dependency Exemption
To claim the dependency exemption for a qualifying child, all four tests listed earlier under Tests To Meet must be met. The child generally must also be a U.S. citizen, U.S. national, or a resident of the United States, Canada, or Mexico. An exception applies for certain adopted children. If married, he or she cannot file a joint return unless the return is filed only as a claim for refund and no tax liability would exist for either spouse if they had filed separate returns.
A person who used to qualify as your dependent but who is not your "qualifying child" may still qualify as your dependent as a "qualifying relative." To claim the dependency exemption for a qualifying relative, the child cannot be the qualifying child of any other person and all five dependency tests discussed under Dependency Tests in Publication 501 must be met.
Note: If you are a dependent of another person, you cannot claim any dependents on your return.
Head of Household Filing Status
In general, you can use head of household filing status only if, as of the end of the year, you were unmarried or " considered unmarried" and you paid over half the cost of keeping up a home:
That was the main home for all the entire year of your parent whom you can claim as a dependent (your parent did not have to live with you), or
In which you lived for more than half of the year with either of the following:
Your qualifying child (defined earlier, but without regard to the exception for children of divorced or separated parents). But, if your qualifying child is married at the end of the year, see Married child below.
Any other person whom you can claim as a dependent.
But you cannot use head of household filing status for a person who is your dependent only because:
He or she lived with you for the entire year, or
You are entitled to claim him or her as a dependent under a multiple support agreement.
Married child.
If your qualifying child is married at the end of the year, both of the following must apply for the child to be your qualifying child for purposes of head of household filing status.
The child cannot file a joint return unless the return is filed only as a claim for refund and no tax liability would exist for either spouse if they had filed separate returns.
The child must be a U.S. citizen, U.S. national, or a resident of the United States, Canada, or Mexico. An exception applies for certain adopted children.
Earned Income Credit (EIC)
You may be able to claim the earned income credit (EIC) in 2005 if you have:
2 or more qualifying children and your earned income is less than $35,263 ($37,263 if married filing jointly for 2005),
1 qualifying child and your earned income is less than $31,030 ($33,030 if married filing jointly for 2005), or
No qualifying children and your earned income is less than $11,750 ($13,750 if married filing jointly for 2005). For purposes of the EIC, a qualifying child must meet the Relationship test, Residency test (without regard to the exception for children of divorced or separated parents), and Age test, earlier. A qualifying child does not have to meet the Support test for purposes of the EIC. But, if your qualifying child is married at the end of the year, see Married child next.
Married child.
A child who is married at the end of the year is a qualifying child for purposes of the EIC only if you can claim him or her as your dependent (see Dependency Exemption, earlier) or this child's other parent claims him or her as a dependent under the rules for children of divorced or separated parents in Publication 501, Exemptions, Standard Deduction, and Filing Information.
Child Tax Credit
You may be able to take the child tax credit if you have a qualifying child that meets all four of the tests listed earlier under Tests To Meet. For additional rules that you must meet, see Publication 972, Child Tax Credit.
Credit for Child and Dependent Care Expenses
Generally, a qualifying person for purposes of the credit for child and dependent care expenses is:
Your qualifying child (defined earlier, but without regard to the exception for parents of kidnapped children), or
Your dependent or spouse who is physically or mentally incapable of caring for himself or herself and who lived with you for more than half of the year.
For purposes of the credit for child and dependent care expenses, a qualifying child and dependent are determined without regard to the exception for children of divorced or separated parents and the child is treated as a qualifying person only for the custodial parent.
For additional rules that you must meet, see Publication 503, Child and Dependent Care Expenses. However, you no longer need to meet the Keeping Up a Home test discussed in Publication 503.
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| September 01, 2006 |
| How do I find out how much money my husband has? |
| Posted By Brian Perskin |
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| September 01, 2006 |
| Never Lie to a Judge |
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You would be surprised how many people actually either out right lie to the Court or misrepresent the truth. For the most part Judges know when a person is lying and when they find out, it will feel like every ruling is going agaist that person.
An experienced divorce attorney in New York, will not stand for a client who is a liar or who misrepresents the truth to the court. Judges have a short memory and if a lawyer gets a bad reputation in the Courthouse, he or she will not go very far.
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