What should I do ?

Unfortunately, custody and visitation cases in New York are messy. There reallly are no winners. When one parent will lie, and make false allegations, it is difficult for some Judges to have a clear understanding if one party is actually telling the truth.

No matter how angry you are at the other parent, always decided your strategy on what would be best for the child and or children. Is it really worth it to have a custody or visitatation fight for an extra day per week? Some people would say yes. Others would say it was not worth dragging the kids through the process. In the end, nobody wins. Judges do not want to decide every aspect each case that is before them. When negotiating a visitation or custody case in NY, remain firm in your position, however, try to understand the other sides position and try to develop a settlement that both of you can live with.